Purse Must-Haves For Dates

A well-stocked bag includes travel-sized tools, essentials and treats to keep you gorgeous all night — and turns the “walk of shame” into a sexy strut the next day. Get our top 10 purse picks here.

By Kimberly Dawn Neumann

hen it comes to dating, do you think you’ve got it in the bag? No, literally…we mean, in your bag. You see, dating success really does require a convergence of preparation and opportunity — and the woman who’s toting the right stuff around in her purse may find herself a step ahead of the competition (or properly prepped for the evening, at the very least) while she’s in search of Mr. Right.

To make sure your own bag’s sufficiently stocked before heading out for the evening, check out this list of recommended items and decide which ones are
There’s nothing worse than having chapped lips on a date.
worth weighing yourself down for — and then leave anything that didn’t make the cut back at home. After all, a good date’s prepared for anything… and that includes getting home the following morning!

Date-worthy purse pick #1: Lip gloss/lipstick
There’s nothing worse than having chapped lips on a date (seriously, who can ponder a goodnight kiss when their pout’s peeling and dry?), but research indicates that men prefer women with an appropriately colored pair on dates. In fact, in a study conducted by Manchester University in the UK, scientists used eye-tracking software to show that in the first 10 seconds after meeting a woman for the first time, the average man will spend more than half of that time looking at her mouth. The study also found that regardless of whether women have thin lips or a plump pout, men rated those who wear lipstick to be about 40% more attractive than those who went bare-lipped. A woman sporting a red-hued lip will keep him fixated for 7.3 seconds (and if you prefer pink, ladies, don’t worry; you can still get his attention for 6.7 seconds). But when the women went sans lipstick completely, the men in the study tired of looking at their lips in just 2.2 seconds. So, ladies, we’d advise you to keep at least one lip product in your purse if you’re hoping for some lip-lock at the end of your evening.

Date-worthy purse pick #2: Peppermints
Nothing is a bigger turn-off than halitosis. In fact, in a recent survey of over 1000 adults age 18-34 conducted by Wakefield Research for Dentyne, 86% of respondents said that the biggest first date deal-breaker was bad breath. So, make sure you pack some gum or Altoids in your bag — and consider choosing anything that’s flavored with peppermint for an added bonus. “Sniffing the aroma of peppermint candy or popping one in your own mouth actually induces a good mood in as little as three minutes,” says Cammi Balleck, Ph.D., author of Making Happy Happen: Secrets to Being on Cloud Nine Every Day. “In addition to peppermint’s power as a mood-booster, the essential oils found in it may also help reduce any feelings of stress,” adds Dr. Balleck. Who knew that one little mint could be such a triple threat? You’ll get fresher breath, a better mood, and anti-stress insurance — all from one tiny, delicious treat.

Date-worthy purse pick #3: Compact
Okay, we don’t really have any research backing the necessity of carrying this particular item, but after chatting with real-life daters, everyone agreed that there’s something very alluring
You’ll get fresher breath, a better mood, and anti-stress insurance.
and feminine about whipping out a compact on a date. Not only can you use it to check your teeth after eating (i.e., make sure you aren’t sporting any spinach between your bicuspids), but it’s also a great way to draw a man’s focus back to your kissable mouth (see #1 on the list above). “My husband said that when we were first dating, I’d put on lip gloss and smile at myself in the mirror, and it was a big turn-on to him,” recalls Dr. Balleck. So feel free to pull out your compact, smile at yourself, and reapply powder or lipstick as needed throughout the night. It’s sure to capture your date’s attention and keep you looking (and feeling) flush with confidence.

Date-worthy purse pick #4: Cell phone with a fully charged battery
For safety’s sake, having a mobile phone on your person is an absolute must. It’s also helpful if you’re meeting up with someone you’ve not met before in case you have trouble connecting in a crowded space (even if you’ve been chatting online via Skype or exchanged photos beforehand, spotting your date that first time in person can be tricky). Your phone can also serve as an escape route if you realize that you and your date are not a good match; simply excuse yourself to the bathroom and text a friend to call you in five minutes with an “emergency,” then make your apologies as you exit. The caveat here is to leave it in your purse while you’re with your date. A recent survey conducted by the mobile security app Lookout found that 6 out of 10 people can’t go an entire hour without checking their phones, and 30% of respondents admitted to rudely doing so during a meal with someone. “Studies show that when we look at our phones, we give off negative energy towards the people that we are with, and it implies that we aren’t really interested in them,” explains Dr. Balleck. “Turn the ringer off so you won’t be interrupted.” But do make sure to charge it up and drop it in your purse before your date…just keep it out of sight.

Date-worthy purse pick #5: Travel-sized hair products and tools
According to a recent Pantene survey, 82% of men polled said that sexy hair is a key element of a woman’s overall sex appeal — and 44% of male respondents said that it’s the first thing they notice about a woman. So tote whatever tools you need in your purse (i.e. comb, travel-sized styling products, hairbrush, etc.) to keep those locks perfectly coiffed. It’s worth the weight, since shiny tresses make such a big impression on men. “Men are attracted to women’s shiny hair, so make sure that your hair looks good and refresh it midway through the date,” suggests Dr. Balleck.

Purse Must-Haves For Dates, Page Two

print send feedback subscribe to
What kind of relationship are you looking for?

Marriage—I'm definitely looking for The One.

I'd like a committed, serious relationship, but not marriage.

I want someone to have fun with—I'm not ready to settle down.

Browse singles in your area.
About | Your Privacy | Terms of Use
Contact Us | Advertise with Us | Become an Affiliate

Copyright 2011, L.L.C.

partner sites:  HSN  Citysearch  Evite  Expedia  Hotels  Ticketmaster  ReserveAmerica  Hotwire   LendingTree 
Entertainment  TripAdvisor  CondoSaver  TravelNow  ClassicVacations  LiveDaily  Udate