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38 year old woman | Durham, NC, United States | Seeking men 33-43 within 35 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
5'5" (165cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
Old-School Girl with a Little Spunk (...and Sarcasm)

In her own words

I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who appreciates connection spiritually, emotionally, and physically. I am the “fly by the seat of your pants” type of girl, so I am sure to be at some event, restaurant, or locale at any given time. I appreciate the simple things in life: laughter, love, happiness, peace of mind. Always up for an intelligent conversation (or debate, lol)--I appreciate people who know and CARE about what’s going on in the world. I LOVE trying new cuisine and learning new things. On the flip side…I love a good workout…when I get the spirit to roll on off my couch, lol. My friend’s recent text sums me up pretty appropriately: “You are truly a breath of fresh air contaminated with sarcasm”. Pretty accurate. :-) At any rate, I am looking for someone who balances confidence with humility—who invests in people, not just things. I don’t ask for (or even talk about) the “list". I don’t have one. I believe in love. I believe in communication. I believe in unity. I believe in sacrifice. I’m pretty old-school, so I believe in courtship, mushy love songs, slow dancing...all the stuff our parents did back in the day. I am drawn to men who “get it”—who value themselves and the people around them…who appreciate the simple things in life…who are emotionally mature in the midst of disagreement…who can laugh at his shortcomings or misfortunes (and mine as well)…who can light up a dancefloor or snatch up a karaoke microphone at a moment’s notice. Alright, the last one is bonus (thought I’d try, lol). Anywhoo, my background is in public service—have been doing community work for about ten years now. I am committed to serving people until both feet hit the grave. So, that’s me in nutshell! I’m excited to try this internet dating thing, so hopefully I find a great guy out here in cyberspace… ****OHHHHH!! PLEASE press the “forward”(aka “keep it moving, son!!") button if:**** 0) You don't have a photo posted. I'm not superficial at all, but I do believe in reciprocation! 1) You R writing lk dis: “Um luking 4 luv…RU dat gurl?” We’re too old for all of that. Good king’s English, please! Get it right, get it tight! 2) You have “I’ll tell you later” 85 times over in your “about me” section. Again, I would appreciate a little reciprocation after I typed up this thesis! 3) You have more pictures baring skin than you do words on your entire profile. 4) You have more pictures baring skin than you do words on your entire profile, AND your background scenery includes a shower curtain and or toilet. 5) Your desired age range is 18-65. You looking for a daughter or grandma? Planning to converse about Nicki Minaj or Gladys Knight?

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Dancing, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Dogs, Fish

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The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'5" (165cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Brown Brown
Hair: Black Black, Dark brown, Bald
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely
Ethnicity: Black / African descent Black / African descent
Faith: Christian / Other Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
Languages: English, Portuguese, Spanish English
Education: Graduate degree No preference
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