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41 year old woman | Virginia Beach, VA, United States | Seeking men 35-52 within 30 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Probably not
Black / African descent
Body type:
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
I read somewhere that most online dating...

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I read somewhere that most online dating profiles are full of lies. If so, then this is likely the only honest profile that you will read today. I am often asked, “Why is a catch like you single?” The answer to that question (if I am to speak bluntly) is because I am too much of a catch. Men 'say' that they want the ideal woman, but this seems to only intimidate most men. :( I am single because I am too educated, too intelligent, too independent, too successful, I think too much, I'm too respected, I make too much money, etc. All of this might be easier for the average man to handle if I were ugly, misshapen or fat, but I'm not. I can’t apologize for the many blessings that God has bestowed upon me. Instead, I will wait for the one man who can handle these blessings, appreciate this about me and want to call me his own. Most men seem to overlook the fact that I do have needs. Very real needs that only the right man can satisfy. I desire one man who I can share my life with. Who I can trust my heart to. Who can be strong for me when I am weak. Who I can rely on for love and comfort. Who I can honor as the man he is. Yes, my standards are high. But, my heart is full of love for the right man. So, if you believe yourself to be a man of integrity, please read on. Firstly, I am a devoted Christian. Therefore, it is important that my match has a true relationship with a higher power. I absolutely love to laugh, I'm a very happy person and I love to spread joy. Therefore, I can't be with someone who is angry, uptight, has a negative attitude and/or likes to argue. My physical appearance, the health of my body and my figure are very important to me. I do not smoke or do any drugs. I do not have any diseases and I drink alcohol maybe once per year. I work out 5 times week, if not every day. I am attracted to men who carry themselves in a similar manner (i.e. shower every day, don’t do any drugs, drink in moderation, disease free and takes care of his body). God has blessed me with 100% natural beauty. I don’t wear makeup and my hair is natural. If you require your woman to have straight hair and a face full of make-up, then I am not the one for you. My life is 100% drama-free. I have no lingering exes and no baby daddies. If you are married, separated, in love, living with someone, sleeping with someone or have more than 2 ‘baby mamas’, NO THANKS!! That is too much drama for my peaceful life. I pride myself on being a quality woman, with morals and decency. The right man for me recognizes the need to be a quality man and appreciates a quality woman. A little more about me: LIKES: #1. I’m a sucker for intelligence and I thoroughly enjoy mentally stimulating conversations (you must stimulate my mind before you can stimulate my body). #2. I love sex (when in a relationship) and could take it every day, but my exes always complained that I wore them out. So, I’ve learned to settle for less, as long as it is good. Unsatisfying, sloppy or selfish sex loses my interest rather quickly. #3. I love to travel and typically take two or three trips per year. It’d be lovely to have a mate who can fund himself for travel together. DISLIKES: #1. I am not willing to be with a man who does not have a job, a car and his own place. #2. I don’t like texting. It’s too impersonal. 99.99% of communication with me is via phone. #3. I detest lies. You can bet every dollar you have that I will ALWAYS be honest with you. Even being told little ‘white’ lies are a MAJOR turn-off for me. My apologies. I know that's a lot to read, but I have found it wise to weed out those whom I have no interest in ahead of time. I invite those who read this and understand my views to reach out to me to further the conversation.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

Favorite hot spots

The Cayman Islands are absolutely beautiful! Some of the places that I intend to travel to include Rio de Janeiro, Africa and Paris.


Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY

Favorite things

Anything purple! :) Ice cold water. Saturdays, because I can sleep late. Pretty shoes that are very comfortable. Great conversation. Movies with an unexpected twist at the end. Singing. Being loved.

For fun

I am always writing something. It's a pleasant hobby of mine. I love to read, anything from novels, to articles, and magazines. I enjoy singing. I'm a bit of a movie buff, mostly suspense and dramas. I also like to swim and to bowl.

Last read

The last book that I read was the "The Shack" by William P. Young. It was quite moving!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'7" (170cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: Curvy Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Other profession No preference
Licensed clinical psychologist
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Probably not No preference
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
I am an African-American (Black) female.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
I am a dedicated Christian.
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
I am a dedicated Christian.
Languages: English No preference
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral No preference
Bachelor of Arts in English and Psychology (double major); Master of Science in English Education; Master of Arts in Psychology; Ph.D. in Clinical and School Psychology
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