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41 year old woman | Virginia Beach, VA, United States | Seeking men 35-52 within 30 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Probably not
Black / African descent
Body type:
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
Wanted: a secure man who can handle being with a woman that's a true catch.

In her own words

If I am to speak bluntly: I don't want to get married and I don't want to have babies. As an educated, professional lady, my priorities are exceptionally different. Yet, I do have needs. Very real needs that only the right man can satisfy. Therefore, I want one man who I can share my life with. Who I can trust my heart to. Who can be strong for me when I am weak. Who I can rely on for love and comfort. Please be forewarned that I have been told that my standards are high. But, I bring a lot to the table and my heart is full of love for the right man. So, I'll patiently wait for the right man who will be my rock and enhance my life with the one thing missing: himself. If you believe yourself to be a man of integrity, please read on. Firstly, I am a devoted Christian. Therefore, it is important that my match has a true relationship with a higher power. I am financially secure and I've been blessed with a successful career. I work harder than I need to, but I truly enjoy what I do. I am not willing to be with a man who does not have a job, a car and his own place. My physical appearance, the health of my body and my figure are very important to me. I do not smoke or do any drugs. I do not have any diseases and I drink alcohol maybe once per year. I work out 5 times week, if not every day. I am attracted to men who carry themselves in a similar manner (i.e. shower every day, don’t do any drugs, drink in moderation, disease free and takes care of his body). My hair is natural and I don't wear makeup. God has blessed me with 100% natural beauty and I am very comfortable in my own skin. If you require your woman to have straight hair and a face full of make-up, then I am not the one for you. I absolutely love to laugh and I enjoy being silly, when appropriate. I am a very happy person and I like to spread joy. Therefore, I do not desire to be with someone who is angry, uptight, has a negative attitude and/or likes to argue. My life is 100% drama-free. I have no lingering exes and no baby daddies. So, if you are married, separated, in love, living with someone, sleeping with someone or have more than 2 ‘baby mamas’, NO THANKS!! That is just too much drama for my peaceful life. I pride myself on being a quality woman, with morals and decency. The right man for me recognizes the need to be a quality man and appreciates a quality woman. A little more about me: LIKES: #1. I’m a sucker for intelligence and I thoroughly enjoy mentally stimulating conversations (you must stimulate my mind before you can stimulate my body). #2. I love sex (when in a relationship) and could take it every day, but my exes always complained that I wore them out. So, I’ve learned to settle for less, as long as it is good. Unsatisfying, sloppy or selfish sex loses my interest rather quickly. #3. I love to travel and typically take two or three trips per year. It’d be lovely to have a mate who can fund himself for travel together. DISLIKES: #1. I don’t like texting. It’s too impersonal. 99.99% of communication with me is via phone. #2. I detest lies. You can bet every dollar you have that I will ALWAYS be honest with you. Therefore, I expect the man that I share my life with to always be truthful with me. Even little ‘white’ lies are a MAJOR turn-off for me. My apologies. I know that's a mouthful, but I have found it wise to weed out those whom I have no interest in ahead of time. I know what I want in a relationship and I know all that I have to offer the right man. I want someone who I can honor as the man he is; who I can trust, have fun with and bond with. I invite those who read this and understand my views to reach out to me to further the conversation.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

Favorite hot spots

The Cayman Islands are absolutely beautiful! Some of the places that I intend to travel to include Rio de Janeiro, Africa and Paris.


Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY

Favorite things

Anything purple! :) Ice cold water. Saturdays, because I can sleep late. Pretty shoes that are very comfortable. Great conversation. Movies with an unexpected twist at the end. Singing. Being loved.

For fun

I am always writing something. It's a pleasant hobby of mine. I love to read, anything from novels, to articles, and magazines. I enjoy singing. I'm a bit of a movie buff, mostly suspense and dramas. I also like to swim and to bowl.

Last read

The last book that I read was the "The Shack" by William P. Young. It was quite moving!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'7" (170cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: Curvy Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Other profession No preference
Licensed clinical psychologist
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Probably not No preference
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
I am an African-American (Black) female.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
I am a dedicated Christian.
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
I am a dedicated Christian.
Languages: English No preference
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral No preference
Bachelor of Arts in English and Psychology (double major); Master of Science in English Education; Master of Arts in Psychology; Ph.D. in Clinical and School Psychology
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