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38 year old man
Rancho Park, California, United States

Seeking:
women 29-39
Within:
30 Miles of Los Angeles, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Looking for the silver lining to this playbook.


What better opportunity to update your match profile than when you are battling a Thursday full of insomnia?

So that's what this is.

I've had many iterations of the "In My Own Words" section.. sometimes brilliant, sometimes perturbing and macabre and fatalistic and despairing- sometimes re-written randomly at 2 a.m.; the point is that I don't really know what really works here as there seem to be no rules to online dating.. it's pure chaos.

I digress.

ME: After 19 I never really stayed in any one place for more than 3 years.. between college, travel/living overseas and whatever... it would seem this blood disorder called my "gypsie-genes" has decided that this is so. I'd like to have a great reason to stay in one place.*wink wink.... The word is peripatetic, and frankly if I don't really find someone stimulating fairly soon, I'll probably re-think staying in L.A. and seek other employment/living challenges elsewhere.

I'm from Orange County (don't judge me monkey), but I retain a global multiculturalism to my general psyche and am not subject to the OC bubble mentality. I consider myself more of a man of the world and am looking for the same.

I value art, music and many of the natural beauties of being out and about, whether it's on a camping trip, long mountain bike ride or an ocean swim.. it helps to counter all the media garbage and distraction, and awful things humans do to each other in our "modern" age.

Still with me?

YOU: Intelligence/Wisdom/Wittiness/Humor: if none of these are descriptors then we'll have nothing to talk about when feeding each other apple-sauce overlooking the ocean in our rocking chairs during retirement. Or maybe if we're at the apple-sauce stage we won't be able to chat too much.. the point is, I value conversation, intellectual banter, curiosity. For the love of the sweet baby jesus have something interesting to talk about, stories, family.

Athleticism. It's not that I expect someone to have the kickin' hot body, but more importantly the desire to do and to be out there. Heck, I was an amateur triathlete and triple sport high school athlete and we all get out of shape sometimes. After almost 20 years of doing it on my own, I'm simply bored of training on my own. I want to train with a partner and get back into it.

I guess that's where I'll leave this section, I hope you enjoyed the novella :D just also know that I don't play games and will pretty much be an open book.

Lastly, just a few core items: I'm sure they're lovely, and you have my utmost respect, but I'm not interested in anyone who already has children. If I do decide to have kids, it'll be on my own terms and a correct decision for me and my partner (and the potential kiddo).

**FYI, will be at the Speedstir on the 4th @ Rocksugar if you'd like to stalk/attend.**

Interests:
Alumni connections, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Martial arts, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I like animals better than most people.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Libra
College:
University of California, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, CA
For fun:

Mountain biking, camping/hiking and pretty much anything outdoors. Wine-tasting, going to the occasional museum exhibit, indie film or interesting cultural event. I'm a Renaissance man when it comes to my interests and activities.

Favorite hot spots:

Here in L.A., the Getty is my sanctuary.. London has my heart, Australia has my soul and Spain has part of my medical history.

Favorite things:

Current faves- Music: 21 Pilots, Alabama Shakes. T.V.: House Hunters International, Cops, IT Crowd, Orange is the New Black, The Fall. Sports: English Soccer, College Sports, Everything else: my 3/4 Taylor Acoustic Guitar, unrestricted L.A. parking

Last read:

"Finding Ultra".. it's an inspirational autobiography, and is helping me to make some major changes in my life to get back into shape...one day at a time.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference

I work at a University performing both admissions and counseling. I make like.. huge money $$$$ :D

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

I value diversity in all things, people and culture.

Faith:
I'll tell you later
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious, Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a degree, a certificate and a few other intellectual pursuits ongoing...life-long learner, basically. I totally own on Jeopardy because of my "random knowledge intellect" and binge-watch TED talks.

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