i seek a woman who's i mean that she should have a good sense of boundaries,cause we're a whole person and must have a healthy lifestyle,More specifically, she should know how to maintain her own boundaries and respect mine also. she should understand the difference between assertiveness and aggressiveness. It is important that she considers herself already a whole person, we do not need someone to fill us up or complete us in order to be a complete person. she need to have the belief system that i will be there to enhance and support her natural, authentic expression, but is not needed to complete who she is. We should be self-confident and have high self esteem. she'd be confident that I can handle new things, even if I have never done it before or if I may not get it right the first time around.we have an internal point of reference; I do not need to have reassurance and complements from others to be confident.