I am a man that has been married twice before and I have been divorced just as many times. My first ex was caught cheating on me in our bed. So, I divorced her after putting her bed buddy in I.C.U. and spending three weeks in Tarrant County Jail. I promised myself that I would never go to jail over a woman ever again. My second ex cheated on me three times. I forgave her for two and I could not forgive her a third time. When I left both of them taking nothing but the clothes on my back and my job.
With my first ex, I have two beautiful daughters that are the center of my world. With my second ex, I have no children. However, she has two sons from a previous marriage. So, I could not leave taking half of what we accumulated with a clear conscious. Therefore I left her with everything.
I am a simple man and I can pay my own way through life. I am not seeking companionship to better my financial standing or to better someone else's financial standing. I am not seeking to help or change anyone and I do not need help and I also am happy with who I am. So, I am in no need of someone who wants to change me. I do not need fixing. I understand that everyone has feelings and everyone has a choice to what and how they feel. Just like everyone has a choice on how they react to those feeling.
The way that I see it is " happy with me or miserable away from me ". The reason why I say that is because I choose to be happy and enjoy every aspect of life.