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33 year old man
Maple Shade, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
women 21-37
Within:
20 Miles of Maple Shade, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I used to say that I wanted an adventurous, spontaneous kind of girl. But I’ve come to realize that I’m really a homebody at heart. That’s not to say that I’m not all about randomly deciding to up and go out somewhere, but I don’t need to go traveling the world or anything. I get turned off by the people with profiles full of vacation shots. That was the highlight of your year, huh? Yeah, so how much did you spend to do all of that? Now, you’re back at your miserable job wishing you were back there. That’s not really living now, is it?
I can get a lot more out of life by reading a book, or learning to play a new song, or even just snuggling up on the couch together with some wine and a funny movie. That’s living to me. Those little day to day things. Why get caught up in the rat race? Who cares about your status? Is that where happiness is found? I once thought that I’d find my happiness through a woman, but now I know that it must come from within, and that it is to be SHARED with another. I’m grateful for what I have, but I feel compelled to better myself in ways, so as to live a more fulfilling life. There’s a song lyric that comes to mind, and it goes:

Pursue happiness with diligence.

At 33, I’ll be starting community college come September, while continuing to work full time. I’ve spun my wheels long enough. It’s time for a change. I’m going for the experience, and the challenge. It’s not so much the degree and the better employment opportunities that I seek, but the experience of going to school and being challenged, being forced to stimulate my mind, and improving myself in ways that I can’t do on my own.

Once I start I’m not going to have much free time on my hands. My idea of adventure is hanging out at Barnes and Noble and drinking strong coffee with espresso; maybe pouring a little whiskey in that cup o' joe every once in a while for shits and giggles.

I don’t have the time to play games. I’m looking for a woman who is attractive, fit, creative, and laid back, but who also wants an enduring relationship. Nothing casual. Casual hookups leave me feeling unfulfilled. I’m finished with that. I want something more, something deeper.

I want someone who appreciates the little things in life and who knows how to live for the moment and who isn’t caught up in the pursuit of some notion of the American Dream. Be someone who isn’t too critical, too stressed, or too uptight. I’m a hard worker, and I’m tough physically and mentally, and I’ll be reliable and steady in my support and encouragement for you in any endeavor that you embark on. But only as long as there is equality in the relationship. I’m all about women succeeding in life and career; I respect the feminine; I AM a feminist. Balance in all aspects of life is key. A relationship is no different. I don’t want to sound too scrutinous; too specific in my desire for a certain type. Although, I’ll say that I'd prefer a woman with natural athletic ability, and a creative bent as well. I may want to start a family down the line after all, and there are certain traits that I seek in a woman.
Life is a series of experiences. Why deny ourselves the potential for a great, long lasting experience?

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I also like rodents and snakes. I would like to get a snake to feed certain kinds of rodents to. What? It's the circle of life! JK. I would feel guilty.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Taurus
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

reading, writing, poetry, coffee shops, book stores, movies, dining out, staying in with wine and a movie, finding new music, listening to music, learning/playing music being around animals, working out.

Favorite hot spots:

I frequent bookstores/coffee shops for any reading, writing, computer work or just leisurely web browsing. I'm always up for a night out at a dive or Irish pub. I enjoy any park or open public space for relaxation but especially for working out.

Favorite things:

I like various types of music and I play a few instruments in a recreational capacity, but my focus now is on playing the acoustic guitar... I love exercising indoors or outdoors several times a week. Fitness is a big deal to me.

Last read:

A book called Brain Wars, about the mind-body problem and the nature of consciousness.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
Less Than $25,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

Germanic/Celtic

Faith:
Agnostic
Agnostic, Atheist, Spiritual but not religious

I do not subscribe to any religion in particular; I think they all offer positive teaching and certain elements of truth, but once dogma enters the picture, you lose me. I believe there is no ultimate truth, except that which we create for ourselves.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree

I learned more in the Marine Corps about the human condition than any college could teach me. I'm mostly self educated beyond high school; I've taken a lot of technical/trade classes which have helped me to become somewhat more practical and handy.

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