Hey there! Thanks for checking out my profile. I consider myself a laid back, funloving gal who tries not to take life too seriously. Life is too short to worry all the time or let the small things get to you. I am not irresponsible however..there has to be a good balance in life. I am living out my dream of traveling the country with my job as an occupational therapy assistant at this time. I couldn't ask for anything more than to see the country and get paid for it. I think its very important in life to expand your horizons and see new things and have new experiences. Of course this can make it difficult to have substantial relationships but I truly believe that love is everything and if I met someone that I felt that "thing" with... I would do what I had to to make it work. Interests of mine include photography (would love to take classes and do it professionally), anything with music (I sing and play piano) and art. Activities I enjoy include bowling, pool, dancing, crafts and just hanging out with good friends. I love being on/near the water and would love to go kayaking someday. I am not a partier, I did enough of that when I was younger. I much prefer having a few drinks with friends over conversation than the bar scene. Although once in a while do like hearing local bands or going out dancing.
I am looking for someone who has similiar interests who can explore all that life has to offer with me and teach me new things as well. I am looking for someone who will be my best friend, the one person I can tell everything to and feel most like myself with. I am looking for someone who is independent, as I am, and will respect that part of my nature. Someone who is confident in himself but not conceited. That is something I despise. He may not make a lot of money or have some cushy, high powered job. But he must be a hard worker and motivated and ambitious. I must say though that I also am not looking to support someone either. I would like someone who is at least somewhat of a romantic and not always in the typical flowers/candy way (although I won't complain). More of in the "friday after work have your bags packed we are going away for the weekend" and "calls in the middle of the day just to say hi" way. A sense of humor is a must and I love spontaneity. I want someone who is open with his feelings. I am tired of closed off men. So communication and openess is very important to me. Obviously I want someone who is honest,caring and kind and knows what he wants.
I am not all that concerned with looks although lets face it, attraction needs to be there. And on that note, obviously if you looked at my pictures you have seen that I am a large gal. I am working on changing that but it is who I am now and may be who I am forever, so if you have a problem with that...move on. If you can't see past that to the wonderful person I am (and that is not being conceited) then you are not worth my time anyway.
Also if you are just looking for a "good time" then don't bother responding either. I am 38 and looking for a relationship with substance and not games.
Well thanks for taking time to read all this and I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks and have a great day!