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34 year old woman
Hutto, Texas, United States

men 35-45
50 Miles of Hutto, Texas, United States
Never Married
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'3" (160cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker



I guess I should start with what I'm looking for so you don't have to read much further if you aren't falling within the guidelines I'm setting.

Want a partner that
• Wants me around, but doesn’t need me to be around
• Understands the busy lifestyle of being a parent of younger kids
• Understands that not all decisions can be decided on together
• Is forgiving of misunderstandings
• Allows for growth from mistakes and growing pains of a new relationship
• Allows for independence of character traits
• Is able to compromise but to the extent of their beliefs and/or morals
• Is able to accept my children as his own
• Is capable of unconditional love
• Is God fearing
• Is supportive of my dreams
• Motivates me to continue to be a better person
• Supports my children’s dreams and aspirations
• Is jealous in a healthy way (those of you that have been through the unhealthy way will
know what I mean)
• Is honest to a fault
• Pushes through my stubbornness
• Fights with the same passion as he loves

Now the fun stuff that I would like to see in my future partner:
• Humor, can laugh at himself and me in a loving adoring manner
• Appreciates the little things in life
• Adventurous
• Spontaneous
• Routine
• Structured
• Romantic but to what I consider romantic
• Loves people and being around them
• Confident without being arrogant

All of the above is what I have to offer a partner plus more. I’m sure I could do the typical woman thing and ramble more but as you will learn there are qualities about me that are not typical. Hope to hear from you if made it through that list and was able to keep nodding your head and saying to yourself….”I got this.”

I'm not sure what else to put on here, but I will answer any question. I don't regret anything in life because it made me who I am today and I'm always learning how to improve my life. I'm an open book so if there is anything you'd like to ask please do unless I already did above and you just want to know where you sign up....LOL

Camping, Cooking, Fishing/Hunting, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing cards, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Football, Dancing, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have an untypical Chiuaua named Bonita. She loves people, traveling in the car and water boarding. I also have a Chiwinnie, who's name is Apollo.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
National American University, Rapid City, SD
For fun:

For fun I like to hang with my kids, family or friends. We play card games, do movie nights or just catch up with each other.

Favorite hot spots:

Sitting at home, going to the park, going camping, or just get a group of friends together and play spoons.

Favorite things:

All time favorite movie is Gone with the Wind as I feel I identify with Scarlett. TV Series Firefly, X-files and Dexter, another movie I like is Serenity. I enjoy old westerns, classic films and karate films, comedies and ultimate action (guy flix).

Last read:

Eragon book series. Men are from Mars Women are from Venus, The Looking Glass book series, Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay.

5'3" (160cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Heavyset, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I work in the IT field.

$35,001 to $50,000
$25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Never Married
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Native American, White / Caucasian
Christian / Other
Christian / Other
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I'm currently in college for Computer Security.

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