Let me first say that I am truly blessed to have three wonderful children that I would give my life for. Their needs come before mine do. I don't do the "bar scene" or the "club scene." You won't find me out late on most Saturdays because I attend church every Sunday that I am able to. As a mother of three, I'm not always able to do as much as I'd like to do. I want to find someone who truly understands what it means to have "a partner" in life. To have a truly lasting partnership you need to have mutual respect. I might not always agree with what you think or say or perhaps even do, but I won't disrespect you for it either. I might be a giver, but that doesn't mean I'm looking for someone who is just a taker. I might meet "the one." I might meet a lot of great people who turn into good friends. I might waste my time. I'm not really sure yet. What I do know: I will be happy either way because my happiness is not dependent on someone else.