Thanks for checking out my profile...:))
ME: (In no particular order) I'm modern, yet traditional, if that makes sense lol. I'm upfront, straight forward and honest and I ask the same in return. I'm open and you will always know where I stand. I'm fircely loyal to those that are closest to me. Reliable and dependable with a "glass half full" attitude always. I'm an optimist who's been described as someone who is authentic and responsible with good judgement and common sense. I'm also compassionate, logical and kind. I'm generous with my affection and time when in a relationship and with those I care about. Life experiences (good, and some not so good) has certainly made me a better, wiser and stronger person and in retrospect, I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm laid back and easy going and can easily adapt to any situation. I'm considerate and thoughtful of others. I've certainly made my share of mistakes but hey, who hasen't? One of my fav Maya Angelou quote is: "When you know better, you do better". It's the lessons learned that counts in the end. I'm still learning and growing but I'm also comfortable in my own skin. I'm resilient and not at all a pushover. I will stand up for who and what I believe in. I can also relate to loss as I've been in love, gave love and lost love. (Haven't we all) I've learned that as important as it is to show love and affection, it's just as important to receive it. I've also tragically, and unexpectedly lost very close family members and friends which all makes me very greatful for all my blessings; big and small. I have a tremendous amount of gratitude for the life I've had and believe everything happens for a reason. In the end, I believe what's meant to be, will be.
I'm looking for someone real and genuine with whom I share chemistry. Chemistry is VERY important. A guy who is ready to enjoy a healthy, normal, emotionally stable, relationship. Someone with whom I share just that right amount of mutual buildable (all important) chemistry with at first--physically, intellectually, emotionally, etc. Those are some of the foundations for cultivating and nurturing any relationship. Someone who is physically and emotionally available. Open, with an easy going, laid back personality. Honest, trustworthy, reliable and respectful. Someone with morals and values. A solid, standup kinda guy who knows what he wants out of life and a relationship. Someone who is spontaneous and creative, independent and caring. Someone who thinks I'm smart, funny and sexy even on the days when I don't necessarily believe any of that about myself.
There's nothing more sexy in a man (in my opinion) than confidence. A guy who can communicate effectively and openly. Someone who's humorous, but knows when to be serious. A guy who's calm in a crisis, has a positive outlook, great energy, financially responsible, goal oriented and driven. I like someone with an edge who's not arrogant.
I know we're all bz but someone who will make "us" a priority. NOT an after thought. I understand we all have some sort of "history" but plz, no baggage/ no drama/ no hang ups!
You should know that I'm just as comfortable going out on the town in the famous "little black dress" or rockin' the "skinny jeans" lol OR cuddling on the couch in your T-Shirt ;) It's not the place that matters but who you're with. I'm not on here to waste anyone's time and don't want to just "hook up" or date endlessly on this site. Just looking for someone who share similar qualities.
I'm not looking to date a bunch of guys, just one very special guy. Quality is more important than quantity. Ultimately there is not a perfect recipe for the right guy but there are some quality ingredients that make all the difference. Looking for someone who "gets it". And if you don't know what that means, then there's a chance we won't connect.
Life is short, be sure to spend it next to the RIGHT person!
Good luck in your search