"He doesn't exist! No one is perfect! How long are you going to wait for?"
"He must exist! Argh! Why would I want someone that doesn't exist?" So here I am on my quest for that special someone.
My feelings and thoughts about my "perfect" someone have been the same for as long as I can remember. There have always been ideals that I have held dear to my heart like respect, grace, kindness, honesty, and trustworthiness. My heart sings when I find anyone who truly possesses these qualities.
So for him, a sense of humor (similar to mine) that makes me laugh or smile would be fun! A man with a brillant mind who is clever and witty is red hot. I love people who are thoughtful, considerate, and pay close attention to details. He must have integrity and conviction; someone who isn't afraid to be himself. On top of that, he must love to see the world in all its splendor and enjoy good food. He must be willing and open to learn and grow; see things in a new or different light.
As for me, I would only expect what I could openly offer myself. I keep my word and pride myself on being fiercely loyal. Others appreciate my honesty, being candid and transparent. I like to keep my life simple, clean, and beautiful. Stress, toxic people, and mind games exhaust me. Unconditional love, a twinkle in the eye, laughter, and sheer joy is what I live for. Finding someone that's worth writing home about would be amazing! In the meantime, I'll be dancing while I'm being a domestic goddess, getting my stories on paper, and planning my next trip to Asia.