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33 year old woman
San Diego, California, United States

Seeking:
men 33-39
Within:
30 Miles of San Diego, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I was told by a friend that I need to sound more warm and inviting in my profile, but I think I pull off the "warm and inviting" thing better in person... :( So anyway, here I go with the serious stuff: I'm here to look for a life partner, a role model for my little boy, and someone to have another child with (or two). I've been a single mom for a while and share custody, and I don't get out much since I'm usually with my son or working or struggling to write another blog (or jogging - and honestly, who wants to meet men when sweating up a storm). I'm usually considered interesting, attractive, intelligent, unusual (controversial even?), very direct and driven, even funny (I hope?!) - but I'm definitely not everyone's cup of tea. I have a lot to offer in a relationship: I'm very loyal, a great advisor and supporter, can always provide good conversation, affectionate, very honest, capable, self-aware, practical. I always try to evolve and make the best of my circumstances, and I would help my partner do the same. I just want someone to share the fun and the responsibility with - and I think I'm good at both.

I'm originally from Russia and Ukraine, then lived in Canada for many years, and have lived in San Diego since 2006. I'm a shrink and I love to talk about people and relationships. Yes, I psychoanalyze everyone. That's how I out the undesirables. :) I often delude myself into thinking that everyone could use my good advice, until I remember that unless they're paying me for it, I should probably mind my own business... Anyhow, I think I'm looking for a guy in his mid to late 30s, with an unusual personality, who has grown up, has been around the block a few times, achieved certain things in his life, and is now ready to dedicate time and energy to creating a family. It would have to be either a single dad (preferably with just one child) who has full or shared custody, or someone with child-rearing experience who's literally ready to start having children within the next 2 years.

What I look for in a partner: kind (as in, you love people and like to help them, you're not self-absorbed, you're empathetic even when you're not getting what you want, and you're able to put aside your ego sometimes), motivated and not entitled / lazy (as in, you know what you want and aren't afraid to work for it), in good physical shape, loyal, honest, funny, calm and not prone to anxiety, come from a decent family and maintain a good relationship with them (and they're local), not emotionally constipated, established in your career and able to support a family, consistent and handle responsibility well (I can't stand flakiness and incompetence), enjoy talking and don't expect your partner to always lead the conversation, confident in your abilities, know yourself well and practice what you preach, playful and unpretentious.

By the way, what's with all the guys stating in their profiles that they want a girl who can dress up for the night on the town and then chill at home in her sweatpants? I'm confused. Is there any other option? Or am I allowed to go party in my sweatpants?

Various self-trivia: I have a wolf tattoo on my leg; I still have a small accent because I moved to North America when I was 13; I studied journalism but never read the news; both my son and I are goal-oriented and stubborn people and don't give up easily when we want something; I can be a bit of a know-it-all, but I'm working on it; I tend to be more logical than emotional; I'm a decent writer; I laugh at my own jokes; I can curse like a sailor.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing cards, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I have 2 cats, but love all animals. I used to have dogs and rats too.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Virgo
College:
Alliant International University, San Diego, CA
For fun:

I'm game for almost anything in good company. Love hiking or walking along the beach; love road trips (would like to eventually graduate to plane trips); appreciate well-written TV series; high-quality food.

Favorite hot spots:

Sunset Cliffs, Crown Point, Liberty Station. I have a much bigger list when it comes to road trips... but I don't do those alone.

Favorite things:

Love food (I'm a foodie), especially sushi; love movies and TV series; love talking and figuring out people and relationships. A fan of astrology and the Enneagram (the personality types system). Music: 80s, rock, industrial, metal, alternative

Last read:

Umm, the only things I make time to read is articles to present to my clients... Reading for pleasure just isn't a priority right now, time-wise.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

I am a marriage and family therapist, and am building a private practice and work at an agency, where I see individuals and also work with domestic violence perpetrators in groups.

Income:
$25,001 to $35,000
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

Grew up in Russia and Ukraine, then lived in Canada for 13 years, and now in the US since 2006.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Conscious awareness aka New Age; includes belief in reincarnation. Although I'm tolerant of all faiths and spiritualities, it is important that my partner either share my spirituality or be open to learning about it.

Languages:
English, Russian
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, and only because I had to get it in order to get licensed (which took 5 1/2 years!). I hate school... but I happen to be good at it.

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