I am looking to meet someone I can have fun with. I have very little free time but would like to have someone to attend things with, i.e. basketball games, movie premiers, and concerts as well as someone to just hang out with and grab a bite to eat or a drink. I don't want someone who has expectations of immediately being my whole world, but if things work out, is happy being included in mine and including me in theirs. I have a great group of family and friends that take up most of my free time. My ideal date would be someone different from my regular crowd who could challenge me intellectually but who is still laid back enough to make me laugh. I do not believe that being capable of having an intelligent conversation would negate the ability to be humourous. He would be someone who has his own interests, but that is comfortable with me doting on him during our time together. While I eventually want to find that someone who I can grow old with, sitting on the porch debating life, right now my focus is on finding someone whose company I enjoy without all the pressure and drama of the rest.