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58 year old man
San Diego, California, United States

women 48-65
35 Miles of San Diego, California, United States
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
Probably not
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker



I see the positive in just about every situation and I work very, very hard to create positive results. Life is too short . . . . not to.

If you are looking for a normal, drama free guy . . . . whose "baggage" fits in a glove box and not a UPS truck . . . . read on . . . .

Down to earth, fit, thoughtful, energetic guy, who does the "little things": . . notes, a flower from the garden by your bedside, run a bath for you . . . . . .

I hope to find a great emotional/physical connection and great brain chemistry with my partner.

Ideally . . . 10, 20, 30 yr. LTR with a woman who wants the do do the same . . .

Playful, curious, friendly, lover of Nature, comfortable with who we are, trusting, give back, a passport that is used, a good moral compass, caring and supportive.

Still reading?. . . If so, it might be you . . . . . . . . . .

Values and things I enjoy:

* I am on time, know how to use my silverware and considerate to those around me.

* I marvel at the elegant simplicity of Nature – Hiking, Kayaking, nature photography, beach, water, sailing, picnics - all things I enjoy immensely.

* Take care of my body (work out 4-5 times a week, but NOT a gym rat). It's about health and remaining fit, not Mr. Universe.

* Eat healthy, farmers markets . . . . not much processed food in my life, but we all indulge a bit now and then :-)

* Learning new things is fun and keeps one young. I enjoy wide ranging conversations that cause me to think and use my brain.

* I believe in equal rights, equal pay for equal work and a woman's right to choose.

I am not into "showy displays". I am secure in who I am.

* If you believe we came from Adam and Eve . . . . . and not Evolution, . . . we are probably not a match.

I can cook and love to cook with my partner.
I have been told, by my female friends, I understand woman better than most men . . . . . . . You will have to get to know me to understand this. I have a few quick examples

On relationships:

Mutual respect, communications, listening -really listening - and laughter are needed for a relationship to endure.

When in a LTR and rough spots arise, you do everything, (up to and including counseling), to hold the relationship together... it is about US and not just YOU.

If you are a lady who "cuts and runs", when a tough patch arises . . . .then we are not a match.

My relationships are based upon how WE define things – NOT based upon sex role stereotypes.

I strive to connect with my partner in all areas of our relationship (verbal, physical, a touch, a look). I like holding hands, looking into each others eyes and knowing there is a connection.


Assorted tid bits:

Raised and schooled back East

Have lived overseas

Two adult sons, educated and on their own

All the pics of me are within the last year.

Married 20, divorced 8

5'11" 175 lbs

Have all my fingers, toes - all parts original and everything works as it should.

Materialistic things are not important to me . . . . . . . having a great, mental and emotional connection are.

Doing simple nice things like . . . pic nic on the beach, giving you a flower, bringing you coffee in bed, leaving you a thoughtful note . . .These things, I hope, mean much more to you than "Bling". . ..

If not. . . . . .we are probably not a match.

Camping, Business networking, Cooking, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
I have Birds, Dogs
Pet Essay:

I love pets, they enrich our lives. My last dog and current dog were both rescues and the best dogs I have had in my life. Horses, for some reason - really like me (perhaps the apples and carrots help)

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Columbia University, New York, NY
For fun:

Kayaking, 2-3 hour walks on the beach, day hikes, trying new restaurants, talking, reading, thinking about the large problems we humans face (energy, curing cancer). I like to cook with my partner, having small dinner parties and of course cuddling.

Favorite hot spots:

Balboa Park, Walking our beaches, half a dozen or so dive bars/quaint restaurants throughout SD county with great food. A good art street fair, exploring new areas all fun with that special someone. Places with flowers to photograph

Favorite things:

red wine, dark chocolate, sunsets, mountains in the summer, random squirt gun wars, feeding each other fruit with our fingers, blowing bubbles, rolling on the ground with my dog, your dog, any dog. Swings, kites, laughing.

Last read:

I read 2-3 books a month ranging from spy novels, history, to physics, I read travel mags, business mags, Car/auto mags, Nat geographic, and more

5'11" (180cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
No preference
Salt and pepper
No preference
No Way
No Way
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Executive / Management
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

Fortunate in my career, started at the Smithsonian Institution after grad school then on to corporate America for 15 years, moved to SD. Started a wireless company, sold it and have been active in technology start-ups. Now focused on Healthcare.

I'll tell you later
No preference
Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
Probably not
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
No preference

I'm a mutt, mostly English and German. Found a family tree my grandfather put together in the 1950's and learned my family arrived on these shores in 1630. Family members founded towns in MA, CT and OH.

Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I do not believe in the dogma of formal religion. I believe Religion has been a great thing in the evolution of Humans and that religion has provided balance, perspective and insight for billions of people. I am spiritual not religious

No preference
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Undergrad in economics, Graduate degrees from Columbia University. All collected/earned in my early 20's.

My parents believed the best education was travel. So we traveled a great deal when I was a child- missed a lot of school.

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