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58 year old man
San Diego, California, United States

Seeking:
women 48-65
Within:
35 Miles of San Diego, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I hope you didn't stop by to just look at the pics - :-) . . . . . . there is much more to this playful, thinking, sensitive, caring guy . . . . .

I see the positive in just about every situation and I work very, very hard to create positive results. Life is too short . . . . not to.

If you are looking for a normal, drama free guy . . . . whose "baggage" fits in a glove box and not a UPS truck . . . . read on . . . .

Very down to earth, fit, thoughtful, energetic guy, who does the "little things": notes, a flower from the garden by your bedside . . . who is seeking a wonderful partner. . . . . . . . .

I hope to find a great emotional/physical connection and great brain chemistry with my partner.

My hope is to find a 10, 20, 30 yr. LTR with a woman who wants the do do the same . . .

We both should be - Playful, curious, friendly, lovers of Nature, comfortable with who we are, trusting, give back, cooking, a passport that is used, a good moral compass, caring and supportive.

You understand relationships require: communications, trust, respect and working through the tough times together.


Still reading?. . . If so, it might be you . . . . . . . . . .


Values and things I enjoy:

* I am on time, know how to use my silverware and considerate to those around me.

* I marvel at the elegant simplicity of Nature – Hiking, Kayaking, nature photography, beach, water, sailing, picnics - all things I enjoy immensely.

* Take care of my body (work out 4-5 times a week, but NOT a gym rat). It's about health and remaining fit, not Mr. Universe.

* Eat healthy, not much processed food in my life, but we all indulge a bit now and then :-)

* Learning new things is fun and keeps one young. I enjoy wide ranging conversations that cause me to think and use my brain.

* I believe in equal rights, equal pay for equal work and a woman's right to choose.

* Possess a worldly view of things from travel as a child and throughout my career.


I am not into "showy displays". I am secure in who I am.

* If you believe we came from Adam and Eve . . . . . and not Evolution, . . . we are probably not a match.

Pets, enrich our lives. I have a dog. Horses really like me . . . carrots and apples seem to help . . . . . :-)

I can cook and love to cook with my partner.
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I have been told, by my female friends, I understand woman better than most men . . . . . . . You will have to get to know me to understand this. I have a few quick examples


On relationships:

Mutual respect, communications, listening -really listening - and laughter are needed for a relationship to endure.

When in a LTR and rough spots arise, you do everything, (up to and including counseling), to hold the relationship together... it is about US and not just YOU.

My relationships are based upon how WE define things – NOT based upon sex role stereotypes.

I like holding hands, looking into each others eyes and knowing there is a connection.

I strive to connect with my partner in all areas of our relationship (verbal, physical, a touch, a look).

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Assorted tid bits:

Raised and schooled back East

Have lived overseas

Two adult sons, educated and on their own

All the pics of me, except the last one, are from March/August 2013. Should be adding more soon.

Married 20, divorced 7

5'11" 180 lbs

Have all my fingers, toes - all parts original and everything works as it should.

I can do expensive things, but they are not the measure of a relationship, mental and emotional connection are.

Doing simple nice things like . . . Running a bath for you, giving you a flower, bringing you B-fast in bed, leaving you a thoughtful note . . .These things, I hope, mean much more to you than "Bling". . .. If not. . . . . .we are probably not a match.

Interests:
Camping, Business networking, Cooking, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Birds, Dogs
Pet Essay:

I love pets, they enrich our lives. My last dog and current dog were both rescues and the best dogs I have had in my life. Horses, for some reason - really like me (perhaps the apples and carrots help)

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Gemini
College:
Columbia University, New York, NY
For fun:

Kayaking, 2-3 hour walks on the beach, day hikes, trying new restaurants, talking, reading, thinking about the large problems we humans face (energy, curing cancer). I like to cook with my partner, having small dinner parties and of course cuddling.

Favorite hot spots:

Balboa Park, Walking our beaches, half a dozen or so dive bars/quaint restaurants throughout SD county with great food. A good art street fair, exploring new areas all fun with that special someone. Places with flowers to photograph

Favorite things:

red wine, dark chocolate, sunsets, mountains in the summer, random squirt gun wars, feeding each other fruit with our fingers, blowing bubbles, rolling on the ground with my dog, your dog, any dog. Swings, kites, laughing.

Last read:

I read 2-3 books a month ranging from spy novels, history, to physics, I read travel mags, business mags, Car/auto mags, Nat geographic, and more

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Salt and pepper
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

Fortunate in my career, started at the Smithsonian Institution after grad school then on to corporate America for 15 years, moved to SD. Started a wireless company, sold it and have been active in technology start-ups. Now focused on Healthcare.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
Probably not
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I'm a mutt, mostly English and German. Found a family tree my grandfather put together in the 1950's and learned my family arrived on these shores in 1630. Family members founded towns in MA, CT and OH.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I do not believe in the dogma of formal religion. I believe Religion has been a great thing in the evolution of Humans and that religion has provided balance, perspective and insight for billions of people. I am spiritual not religious

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Undergrad in economics, Graduate degrees from Columbia University. All collected/earned in my early 20's.

My parents believed the best education was travel. So we traveled a great deal when I was a child- missed a lot of school.

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