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39 year old man
Saugus, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking:
women 28-42
Within:
20 Miles of Revere, Massachusetts, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Failed relationships of the past along with life experience has given me a sense for the personality that would fit me best. A person that has qualities, core values and belief system that are most similar to my own, My close friends and family, the people that know me best may describe me as warm, thoughtful, caring and someone that always tries to do what's right - even if perceived different at first glance. He is never malicious and always coming from a good place. Most think of him as genuine, honest, sincere, passionate, loyal, empathetic, and overall a kindhearted person.

With that said, life experience has tought me not to put a premium on things that fade over time. Focus on a persons core qualities and what's inside, not doing this can/has cause failed relationships and a failed marriage. People say opposites attract, I say that's why divorce is over 50%. My belief is good relationships are built on a strong foundation based of commonalities from similar beliefs and most importantly respect & trust. Physical attraction is important and always a factor, but not he most important any more. Lessons, instincts and life experience have given me the tools to measure the inside of a person, the size of their heart and whether they give are takes or givers - that's the truth most people want in at the beginning of a relationship.

Judgmental, opinionated (having an opinion is good thing as long as you believe that other opinions exist and yours are not always correct), arrogant, shallow, not self-aware, self-centered- all very unappealing and not really a good fit for me - this an attempt at condescending, just mine and only my feelings so far - hopefully others will agree.

Someone that enjoys and appreciate life, but doesn't feel entitled by it, would be very desirable to me as person. Also, someone who isn't afraid to give or take good constructive feedback, it's been valuable in learning to not make the same mistakes twice by using better judgment in future decisions.

Also, important to me is a person that's caring, nurturing putting others needs before her own. Also, has their own set of friends, interests and hobbies - yet will be open to other interests and sharing their own, recognizes when alone time is needed is a virtue and a very good quality in a partner.

Career and similar career goals used to be important. i feel productivity in your own way is what truly matters and without saying taking care of life's responsibilities. Life is precious and should be treat that way, not taken to serious - being positive and driven by life's possibilities is how I try to approach each day. A person that views life in a similar wa be would be a great match. My family and friends will always be important and will always find time for fun and relaxation.

My first attempt at happiness fell short, but I have two beautiful daughters and very little regrets Hopefully, better judgment will produce a different a result the next time. My goals are certainly lofty. it shows how much i will give to the right person. Perfect is something I am not, nor do I expect another person to be.. The hope is that we can strive to be perfect together

My life has been tough at times, but overall a good learning experience. Looking to meet a good person that has the ability to bring out the best in me and I can do the same for her because being happy is what life is all about. If you feel these thoughts are genuine and resignate with you then please don't hesitate to reach and will talk. If it your don't feel this way, that is fine as well. I wish you luck and sincerely hope happiness is found in your own way. The above paragraph just explains the type of person that will most likely lead to mine

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Bowling, Football, Golf, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs, Fish
Pet Essay:

I have a labradoodle that is 7 years old and a 150 gallon Fish Tank

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Cancer
College:
University of Massachusetts Amherst, Amherst, MA
For fun:

Avid Boston Sports fan, Biking, Gym, bowling league golfing, Karate, Golf, Traveling, Nice Dinners, meeting good people and good company most of all.

Favorite hot spots:

Travel wise - South Beach (Miami), NYC, Newport RI, Europe (Greek Islands, Rome)

Boston in the summer time.

Favorite things:

Single dad that tries to spend extra time with young daughters including coaching soccer, dance recitals, school plays, reading to class. Personally, I enjoy Karate, softball, basketball, shows, plays, epic movies and life's passion.

Last read:

Hunger Games Series - Loved the movies as well.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Blue, Brown, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

I work in the technology field selling complex solutions to Enterprise type companies and have done this since graduating college.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
High school

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