Still here trying something different. Not the typical guy. Not looking for one night stands or random hook ups. I could go to a club or bar for that. As a matter of fact l wish I could find someone that would make me hold out but keep me interested enough to want to stay around for something more. Instead I'm looking for the right person that is meant for me. Honest and blunt, its part of my charm. A little shy at first, but doesn't last too long once the ice is broken. Not into going downtown every weekend, prefer the company of good friends, but I do like a good Happy Hour downtown. Believe and trust in God. The road to true happiness lies in doing what He has planned for you, not always in what you think you need. Try to do what's right for others first, before what's right for me. I look "unapproachable", can't help it; I grew up in New York. But I'm actually a nice guy, even though most people don?t make it past the "mean mug." A workaholic and very competitive, but don't see those as faults. Not into taking pictures of myself or being in pictures in general really. I have 2 beautiful children (8 and 15) which are God's greatest gift to my life. They live with their mom every other week (we still maintain a good friendship). Well best of luck to all of you and I hope we all find what we are looking for.