I am an educated, divorced mother. My daughter is the center of my world, but I am looking for someone to share that world with. I like planning surprise picnics or weekend getaways just to show how much I care for someone. I am a planner, but not to the point that every day is mapped out. I like having general boundries that allow me to go outside them without feeling out of control. Did I mention that some of my friends consider me a control freak? Nothing bad, just that I like to know what is going on and how it will impact me. Don't get me wrong I love surprises! My perfect match is someone who knows the when I just need a hug and when I need his advice. Someone who enjoys sharing life's little moments with me. Who understands that kissing is one of the most intimate experinces that two people can share and wants to share them with me. Someone who in the middle of their day sends me a text or an email just to let me know they are thinking about me.