I will just put a few things upfront FIRST:
- PLEASE BE 110% SURE YOUR READY FOR A LTR (if it happens). if you plan on sending ONE email and not wanting to talk. its simple: Please do NOT write me!! thanks
ALSO....NO GAMES PLEASE!!
1. PLEASE...DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE NOT INTO DATING/RELATIONSHIPS.I AM POSTING FOR THOSE THAT ARE INTERESTED. =)(so do NOT contact me if "you don't know what your looking for" or "not into finding someone special but just want fun and drinks" or "want a guy to take up time in your day..but nothing serious". I AM NOT...AND I REPEAT NOT INTO ALL OF THAT...!!
2. Sex is NOT and I repeat NOT the best thing a girl can offer me, so please do NOT approach me as if THAT is how you "take good care of your man". I will NEVER choose "physical pleasure" over a REAL connection with a girl, a connection that make one LONG for the other just by a single look or a simple whisper of a few words....
3. I am NOT into "friends with benefits" or "dating 5 other guys while dating me". this is NOT my preference...so please..if it is YOURS..i am NOT the guy for you.
4. Comes after 3 and before 5!
5. Please be COMPLETELY single. (includes NOT living with your ex or "in the process of a divorce) COMPLETELY means "JUST YOU"!
6. I LOOOOOVE kids...I have no issue with you having children.
8. i am MIXED..so PLEASE do NOT stereotype me as ANY of my races. i was RAISED "LA creole"..music, food, language...and my African American side is there too. BUT..i am NONE of them..and yet ALL of them... (..WOW..that sounded so mystically wise! ha!!)
9. YOUR STILL READING THIS?? WOOOOW!! lol...thanks...now..more about me..
10. lastly...if you write me, please write more than "one line". example "hi, i like your post, let's talk" or "my name is (blank) i am sexy and fun..holla". PLEASE BE A LITTLE MORE CREATIVE. LOL. if YOU believe I AM a quality guy..then WRITE to me like i am..and YOU are quality yourself. =)
..some basics... i am single Mixed male (SMM) Creole/Black. handsome, athletic. NEVER married. NO kids. i am in Boston. I am intelligent, unique, fun, love to make people laugh, confident in who I am, outgoing, straight forward, NOT into games, NOT a playa, NOT fake or flaky, NOT into drama. I like to mix it up...keep things fresh...and i am NOT ashamed to admit i prefer to be in a relationship. I am hoping to find a female that HAS TIME FOR A GUY...that can keep her word, not fake or flaky, strong, independent, fun, open minded and is open to a relationship if it gets to that point. i am NOT here for "friends with benefits"...or for "one nighters"...or just for a physical relationship...if your looking for that..simply move to the NEXT profile.
Allow me to STIMULATE your mind, show you new things, LEARN and GROW together. i am a GOOD change of pace from most guys. say hi, ALLOW ME THE HONOR