I think women now a days are looking for something different (be it race and/or financial security) vs. The typical players/bad guys out here. Why else would you be online. I have been traveling a lot from time to time so never could hold down anything local to wherever I was located. Now that I have cut down my business traveling. Now I want to find someone that makes me tick, someone who gets me and I can support in many ways. She has her life, I have mine, and we get each other. Wow, I think I typed wayyy too much.
I must add, since I am into fitness...I find myself more attracted to 'Athletic and Toned' or 'Slender'...if 'Average' then cool. JUST BE REAL ABOUT WHO YOU ARE AND I RESPECT THAT. I AM ATTRACT TO REAL WOMEN, OF ANY BODY TYPE). I am not shallow by nature i rather be real with you so you can be real with me. So many times people just want to go out and date date date and that's not my style. I'd rather be selective, see if we have chemistry and flow from there. I don't date by a book neither, I let it flow. If I like you and we vibe then there is no stopping us...if we have a PAUSE then let's keep it moving and be sociable.
I am very active, e.g. I play alot of tennis (NSTA) and sometimes basketball or golf.
ALSO, NO CHOW HOUNDS... we can do the coffee tea, take a stroll when we first meet if that's the case
LAST BUT NOT LEAST.... I think this (or any other) romance site now-a-days is 95% filled with serial daters. I am now beginning to refine who I would even meet face to face based on this revelation.