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32 year old man
Avon, Indiana, United States

Seeking:
women 22-36
Within:
20 Miles of Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I do my own thing and follow my own internal compass. Doing what everyone else does just doesn't satisfy me. I am almost never satisfied with the status quo and what everyone else does. If I'm not feeling my own unique perspective, I am usually not happy. I am working on starting an organization and hope to find someone who appreciates that I am doing what I believe in instead of doing what everyone else tells me I should do.

I value starting a relationship as friends first. I would love to meet someone who is a "match" for me, but I don't want to go on a date and feel like we have to impress the other person or hide who we really are.

I will share my secret. I got started with dating really late in life, and it has been hard to feel comfortable in a relationship with someone who is my age or older and who experienced life already (like being married and having children). I want to have a child, especially a girl, someday, and I want to be a good dad. It's hard to go from never really being in a relationship to all of a sudden having a child.

I try not to let age bother me. I am looking for an connection above everything else, but when I start to feel that connection, I am really looking for someone who I can look in the eyes and not have to hear about or be reminded that some other guy got to have a child with her or that she "did all that stuff in her twenties." I didn't do all that stuff in my twenties, and I am concerned with how I can stay connected to someone my own age or older when every time I see a young attractive woman without a child, I feel sad that I missed out on that part of my life.

I don't mean to sound negative. I just have to recognize my truth and what has happened in the past when I tried to just "let go" and have fun.

When I am honest with myself and search for my truth, I find that I am actually happy but usually alone. I am looking for someone who can appreciate me for trying to really understand my truth and can appreciate me for trying to understand theirs. In other words, just letting go and throwing caution to the wind doesn't work for me. I really feel, and really have desires to live life by my own values, and am looking for someone who can connect with me on a deeper level and compliment each other. I would rather be alone and myself than be in a relationship where I have to lie to myself about how I really feel.

I enjoy hearing feedback from friends like, "Rudy, you seem to have an ability to understand people better than they understand themselves." I feel like I am in search of truth, and once I discover that truth life becomes so much more enjoyable, so much more free. It is sometimes hard to understand that there are very few people who choose to live life the way I do, and it would be nice to meet someone like me and see where it goes.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Gardening/Landscaping, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Inline skating, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Fish
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
Bradley University, Peoria, IL
For fun:

I recently discovered City Market downtown. I like discovering new places and exploring them.
...going to events around campus and meeting new people.

Favorite hot spots:

I like the Indianapolis Museum of Art and anywhere you can get a great view of the sunset. I like the canal walk.

Favorite things:

Learning about other people, turning off the computer, cuddling, cuddling after a great workout, smiling, Udi's gluten-free snickerdoodle cookies.

Last read:

I read a lot so this is always changing. Some interesting books that I like are Emotions Revealed by Paul Ekman, Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, and The Absorbent Mind by Maria Montessori.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Student
No preference

I am studying organizational communication and non-fiction writing this semester.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Other
No preference

I don't conform to a specific religion.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree

I have a bachelor's degree in computer information systems. I have spent time learning information technology, computer programming, accounting, psychology, human communications, sociology, and writing.

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