I'm very independent and bought my own home when I was 25. I love cars, sports, power tools and wood working, yet I also love baking, reading, traveling, dancing, high heels and pretty earrings. So I guess that makes me a cross between a girly girl and just one of the guys. I'm silly and can be a bit of a clown, but I can be serious when I need to be. I love to make people smile, which is probably one of the reasons I'm a pastry chef. I'm not looking for someone to "take care of me". I'm looking for someone to love me. Someone who will respect me as their equal, but still treat me like a lady. I'm looking for someone who will want to be my best friend, want me, and want to be with me long term. I'm looking for someone to share my life with.