I am a student and mother of 4. I know that's not most guys' dream woman but really, if you're looking for a real person, that is me. I'm tired of drama, cheaters, and losers. I want to enjoy life and if there's someone who might want to share it with me, send me a message! Just for the record, I'm not looking for a "baby daddy" or a commitment AT ALL! In fact, I'm avoiding those things for a while! I just wanted to get my disclaimers in because there's nothing worse than your date saying, "I thought I told you I had 4 kids!"
What am I looking for? I don't really know! I do know that I really want to spend time with someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation (or even debate!). I want to meet someone who is creative, smart, funny, and just fun to be around. I hope to meet someone with high aspirations and is never satisfied with "good enough". I prefer to date open minded, socially liberal types of people.
And I guess I should mention some things about me. I am a student currently finishing my BS in Accounting. I am not religious and personally don't care for organized religion. I have spent the last year in El Paso, TX (long story but it explains why I am "currently separated", not yet divorced) and until now didn't realize just how much I LOVE the Pacific Northwest and in particular, Seattle. The Seattle/Tacoma area is my home and I never want to move away again. That doesn't mean I wouldn't like to travel someday, just keep me away from Texas! I am honest and appreciate others' honesty and integrity. The only hobby I make sure I make time for in my crazy life is roller derby. Yes, the fishnets and booty shorts roller derby! (I get asked that question a lot!) Contrary to what most people think, it is a real sport that I take very seriously. I'd love a guy who wanted to cheer me on!
I think you can tell a lot about a person by the music they listen to. I love rock music, especially from the 90's and especially anything dubbed "grunge!" I love concerts, mosh pits, and loud music. Maybe that sounds like something a teenager would say, but it's true. Hey, I've always wanted to learn how to play an instrument so if you are musically inclined, all the better!
I need someone in my life that wants and has their own independence. Lord knows I don't need another child, lol! I want to meet someone who loves life and doesn't NEED me, but rather wants me in their life.