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29 year old woman
Phoenix, Arizona, United States

Seeking:
men 28-38
Within:
100 Miles of Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Hey I'm Shayna! I'm half amazing, and the left over bit is a work in progress lol. I guess you could say I hail from Los Angeles, but have called many places home. I'm a hard working dame, with a great sense of humor and style. I'm sort of quirky, but in a refreshing kind of way. Although I'm pretty girly, I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. I'm a God fearing and serving woman and believe that all great relationships are rooted in great friendships.

I'm a music junkie at heart. From folks like Sade, Radiohead and The Roots to the Police, Little Dragon and Tame Impala --I'm all ears! No matter the genre, I love true musicianship. I'm a sucker for a dope beat and a sick bass line. I also have an affinity for movie scores/composers both new/old like The Cinematic Orchestra or Piero Umiliani. It clearly doesn't stop there. I can even get weird and listen to some Portishead and Massive Attack on occasion. Be it a classical piece, experimental trip-hop or a bay area joint, I'll probably be down. Suffice it to say that I have a pretty eclectic ear.

Random Facts:

I love to travel.
I think Dane Cook, Jim Gaffigan, Louis C. K. 'n Bill Burr are hilarious.
I really dig archeology (ya see what I did there).
I can't stand clubs (Bobby Bottleservice anyone?), but I like upscale lounges.
TV - Scandal, Downton Abbey, Homeland, Nashville, It's Always Sunny, The Mindy Project, The League, SNL, American Dad!, Key 'n Peele.
I love live music, spoken word and poetry slams.
I'm into indie films, art walks, DIY projects, etc.
I love to read, visit flea markets and take long walks on the beach yadda yadda.

I'm pretty goofy most of the time and thrive around people who are comfortable in their own skin. Laughter soothes me, I laugh at myself constantly throughout the day. I used to be clumsy as a kid, and quickly learned not to sweat the small stuff. Plus I have a dark sense of humor, and can squeeze a giggle out of the most awkward of situations. It's probably a coping mechanism I'm sure lol. I work hard at staying centered and try not to let a "bad day" wreak havoc on those around me. Nobody likes an emotional terrorist lol.

A few years ago while traveling, I had lunch at some no named diner by the airport. A wise old couple sat in a booth behind me and randomly whispered that a successful marriage must have good food, unconditional love and lots prayer. Then they proceeded to dine 'n dash. I couldn't help but chuckle as I watched the geriatric duo slowly shuffle across the parking lot in matching get away walkers. Hilarity aside, their little stunt reminded me about the importance of teamwork in a relationship. I'm not searching for a partner-in-food crime lol. I am however, in search of a best friend. I want the Trifecta: to be cherished, challenged and changed for the better.

Relax, this isn't a ransom letter filled with demands fit for a delusional rom-com character. I don't expect a knight in shining armor to rescue me from the West coast lol. Nay, I have a simple request. I want to cultivate an awesome bond with a humble yet amazing bloke who treats me like a queen. While getting the royal treatment is nice, focusing more on kindness and reciprocity is better. Lest we forget, that balance is key.

Now that I'm older I finally have some life experiences to draw from. I've come to realize that I am what I attract. My tag line says, 'Hidden Gem Seeks Dapper Dan' (read: handsome good humored gentleman). I believe I must resemble that which I desire. We need to mirror each other. I'm in search of a man who is able to articulate his feelings and emotions, who says what he means, and honors his word. I'm looking for my reflection.

Thanks for reading my long-winded manifesto lol. Now it's your turn. What makes ya tick? Fancy a game of paint ball or a visit to a wine bar? Perhaps we can talk about how I plan to own you at air hockey lol. Let's grab some over-priced coffee and talk. Send me your info and let's shoot the breeze!

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Dancing, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Cats are cute but I don't dabble due to allergies. I like dogs. Had a handsome little Yorkie, but had to re-home him due to my hectic work schedule. Still sad about that, but I'm open to the idea of adopting a rescue pup.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
University of California, Berkeley, Berkeley, CA
For fun:

I enjoy espionage films, the Discovery/History Channel. I love trying new kinds of cuisine, comedy clubs, art walks, shopping, travel, etc. I like to stay active, but I'm cool being a home body too. Balance is key.

Favorite hot spots:

I don't have any in this city yet...

Favorite things:

A good thunderstorm, my mom's sweet potato pie, that feeling you get after a great workout, pens that have awesome ink flow, soft oatmeal raisin cookies, cracking open a new book, niche fragrances, snarky comments and all things purple or chartreuse.

Last read:

Bossypants, by Tina Fey and The Tipping Point, by Malcolm Gladwell

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
6'0" (182cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference

My mom is American and father was Nigerian (no I've never been to Nigeria nor do I speak the language lol.) Though I'd love to visit the Mother land one day. 'Coming to Nigeria' hehe.

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I studied Psychology at University of California, Berkeley

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