I'm a fun loving girl, who loves to laugh and has a heart of gold. Family and friends are very important to me, and I would do anything for them. I'm originally from San Diego, and go home often, especially when LA gets to be too much. I have a very laid back personality... so definitely not your typical LA girl, if you know what I mean. I'm a very loyal person, if you stay on my good side... haha... no seriously, stay on my good side :-) I'm a go-getter, always in pursuit of a goal whether big or small, and believe that every experience builds my character. I work hard, so my free time is very important to me to have balance. Simple things in life matter to me, and sharing them with someone who can also appreciate that would be amazing.
I'm at a point in my life where the formalities just don't impress me anymore. Anyone at the same stage of life as me has had their share of heartaches, lessons learned, baggage, and growth... that's what I'm more interested in, how are you getting better? After all life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you handled it. I really believe that, and live my life that way as best as I can. Some insider info to give you a fighting chance... The way to get me and keep me is directly linked to my stomach and my mind. If you can make me laugh, cook a good meal, and conversate with me about anything and everything (both random and intellectual)... you have a chance! I say this because that's what I have to offer and there needs to be some reciprocity :-) I can be a big nerd, and really enjoy spending time with someone who can teach me something I don't already know about.
That said, I am also extremely honest... I'm not here to play games and I'm not afraid to call guys out on their BS. If you want a submissive girl that keeps her opinions to herself, I'm not the one. I'm passionate, and intelligent, but also very reasonable, and I'm looking for the same.
Still reading.... great! You don't have ADHD :-) The next section is meant to be a filter. Sorry but I need some way to weed out the incompatible suitors and this will save us both the time and potential "thanks but, no thanks". I wasn't kidding about being extremely honest...
This is VERY important, and if you still contacted me despite this next detail, I'm not even going to respond, and you only have to look at my profile again to know why... I have a Dad (a great one actually who taught me what it means to be a respectable lady and what to expect in a good man) so, NOT looking for another which means, if you are over 40, you are out of my range. Nothing personal, but if you aren't from my generation and can't relate to my childhood references and affinity for late 80's and early 90's movies, you probably won't appreciate my humor. In regards to physical, I have a thing about hairy guys... NOT a fan, so if you don't believe in manscaping... that may be a dealbreaker. If guys can specify what they want physically in women in their intros... I'm also taking liberty! A sense of style would be nice, but if not, be open to some styling tips at least! Finally.. hygiene, not looking for a germaphobe, but it helps when a guy smells amazing and looks clean and fresh! Appealing to all my senses matters! Let's be real fellas, you didn't open this profile and read this far because there wasn't some attraction... right? It is important. I'm more than happy to keep on keepin' myself up, so I want someone who does the same.
Bonus points if you are adventurous, into sports, movies, music, art, food, dancing, and handy around the house!
If you read all this... you must be a good listener... so if you can handle my strong personality and fit the above criteria... send me a clever message and we'll go from there!