"I want someone who can respectfully challenge me. I know what I believe, so there's no point in me taking on a relationship with someone who thinks like me or laughs at what I laugh at. I enjoy being with someone who can offer me the opposite." I'm very independent , and I need a woman to be independent as well. I love to do nice, thoughtful things for my woman. But I enjoy caretaking only when I don't think she's going to start being dependent.