I recently heard from a friend that 30's is when one finds his/herself and know what one wants in life. Probably true...I feel like I spent most of my 20's trying to get the other person to like me, but I never really knew what it was that I wanted out of a partner. But the reality is, I think I still don't know what I want, because I still haven't met her.
As for myself, I'm an ex instigator/agitator, learning to be a better person...or so that's what I said when I was getting a mediator certification. Otherwise, I'm supposed to be an attorney, for the most part, but I'd like to think of myself as more than the sum of my education. My occupation itself is pretty much filled with liars and socially awkward/aggressive people, so we tend to get a bad reputation, but I promise that I'm trying hard to keep my work out of my personal life. Geez, that sounds kinda self-deprecating...I just like to poke fun at things (hence, the agitator).