hmmmmmmm. This is tougher than I thought, since I don't really like to talk about myself. So, what would you like to know?
a light hearted, sassy and sarcastic girl who is not needy or clingy in anyway. I consider myself a "free-spirit" and would never put any demands or constraints on anyone. However, once in a relationship would like someone to be honest and loyal throughout.
I work in the fashion industry so all the men I am in contact with are either gay or gayer, (which has left me with an army of gay friends)! I am passionate about my job and work very long hours, that is why I am on this site, which normally would not be my style. I would prefer to meet someone organically, but am not knocking online dating. In fact, I give a lot of credit to people who are putting themselves out there.
what i like:
l eating in local, quiet places rather than pretentious "sceney" joints. dia beacon, independent movies, angelica, murukami books, the color RED, humbleness, people with razor sharp wit, the ace hotel, walt whitman, getting tipsy in different countries and attempting to speak the language.
what i'm looking for:
someone who I can run around NY with from Harlem to Nolita and discover the hidden pockets of NY. someone with a strong sense of "self", but not too strong where they only hear their own voice all the time. No narcissists please.
I do not care what car you drive (biking is better, anyway), where you live or what you do for a living. If you know someone. If your clothes are this years cutting edge...(well maybe a little). If your trust fund is unlimited. If you are A list or B list or never heard of you list. I only care about the words that flutter from your mind. They are the only thing you truly own. The only thing I will remember you by. I will not fall in love with your bones and skin. I will not fall in love with the places you've been. I will not fall in love with anything but the WORDS that flutter from our extraordinary mind! Thus, winks will not work, you're just wasting your time.
I also respect someone that doesn't need to be defined by the person who they're with to make them happy. hopefully, they will just BE content naturally alone (with or without a partner). Looking for someone to SHARE new experiences with....in which I could teach and learn from , as well as in the mix of it laugh until our bellies ache.