I am looking for a serious relationship, not something that last a couple of months or so and dies away. I have lived threw the death of my oldest son's father and the divorce to my youngest boy's dad. What doesn't kill u makes u stronger. I am strong when I need to be but would like to have someone to share the good and bad times with. Someone who can bend without breaking. I like to cuddle and watch TV or movies but also like to go out and have grownup time. I like to hang out with my kids and family as well. I enjoy a good horror novel by John Saul when I get the chance but sometimes have stayed up all night reading them.
I like to be organized and am usually on time or ahead of time for everything. I am a CHRISTIAN but haven't found a church that I call home yet. I am learning new things about myself even thou I am 39. I feel if u can't learn new things or even change yourself for the better then u are stuck in a rut.
I want someone who will eventually love me for me including my faults, scars and kids. He needs to be loving, not afraid to cry becuz my mom always told me it takes a man to cry, understanding, willing to talk out problems and not yell & argue about them. He needs to be willing to compromise on somethings. He also needs to be strong, willing to stand up for what he believes in and for me and my boys if ever need be. A good sense of humor but can also be serious. Loves God and family first then everything else comes next.
I guess that is a start. If u think u would like to get to know me more just ask me anything u would like:-)
