Look I just want to go out and have a good time is this really that hard, I am Honest, hard working, motivated person with values and goals and looking for the same. I am also fun, easygoing, ambitious, honest, a gentleman most of the time & good w kids. I enjoy most all things in life as each day is a new day to live for. I am looking for someone to go out and have fun with explore new things and see where that can lead us. P.S. I don't mind a little extra as I have some as well, but a little extra is not 150# not trying to be rude but ran into this to many times...Also, can anyone tell me why some woman like to be treated bad? I have run into that too, saying I am to nice of a guy however they are norm still hung up from there ex or that is what they have been used to. So feel free to send me a note!