Stable, positive and independent guy looking for same who can expand my horizons. The rest, you and I can fill in later. Let's see what life holds :-P Regardless of how I try to advertise myself on here, it is better to see for yourself the kind of person I am. Honesty and communication are the two qualities that I value most in a relationship. Chemistry is also important.....less physical and more being able to hold a conversation than anything else.
"I try not to take myself seriously...." is such an odd statement. I can kick back, relax, and be the life of the party....but there are parts in my life that I would not positively progress to if I am not serious and decisive. A good balanced life cannot be emphasized enough. Hence....finding a partner who can complement me and make me whole - SYNERGISM. Look what the Big Bang brought about!! It's amazing ;-) When it happens, it happens.....I would rather be struck by love spontaneously than to make up some facade of being in love.
WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
Please be comfortable with your sexuality and have gone through the process of acceptance of yourself being gay. I do not mind if you have not gone through telling everyone in your life that you are gay but it is hard to be in a relationship with someone who denies who he is. Not everyone needs to know your sexuality; at least the important ones in your life should know...everyone else is a need to know basis.
I am also not looking for a feminine guy...otherwise I would date women and not men. What makes me gay is that I am attracted to the masculine energy of men - in the strictest, traditional sense of the word :-)