Who I am and what I'm looking for is pretty simple. Besides being each other's best friend, I believe that every man should seek to be his woman's hero, and that every woman should seek to be her man's heroine.
I belive a person's "what I'm looking for" section can say more about them than their "about me" section.
My closest friends would probably describe me in a way that compliments me and makes me more appealing, but then again my closest friends could never know me as closely as my woman would. So, you could ask an ex of mine, but they could possibly describe me on a way that reflects their experience with me, and given the fact that they're an ex, might give a biased opinion. Or, they may say that I am the best man that they've ever had, and that they regret the day that we ever parted ways.
Or you can get to know me, and judge for yourself whether or not we are compatible. As for me, I improve day by day, and I'm better now than I was yesterday, but not as good as I will be tomorrow.