When we meet for a first date, skip the handshake. Don't be a brick wall with your emotions. If you are interested in me, let me know. flirt with your eyes a little bit. Touch me on the arm when engaging in conversation. If you are into me, make the effort to show it. Reach for your wallet. Let's just say I'm not exactly old school in this regard. When women offer to pay for the first round of drinks or insist on paying for the second round, this instantly ups my interest. No, it is not because I am a bum that wants a sugar momma to take care of me and pay my car bills. It has absolutely nothing to do with money, and I will almost always refuse to take it. It's the gesture that I love. This reveals to me that I am with a woman who is kind, generous and not in the slightest bit selfish. More importantly, I know that these qualities will likely carry over into all aspects of our future relationship, not just monetarily. Listen to me when I speak. I am on a date to have a great time, not to be ignored. If I felt like being talked at for two hours, I'd be having drinks with my grandmother. Show your femininity. Take the time to highlight all those beautiful features you have. Leave me thinking about how great you looked long after the date is over. Let me know that you can hang with the boys. This is a huge one. So show me both appearance and personality-wise that I can feel comfortable bringing you around my friends. Bring something unique to the table. Anything that breaks the monotony of a typical first date is always a good thing.
Don't brag to me about all your accomplishments.
Laugh at my jokes.