I am a laid-back So. Cal girl who enjoys morning strolls with my dog, Lucca, latte in hand, and evening dinner parties with friends, beer in hand. I am not interested in the stereotypical lesbian story: the second date U-Haul is not an option. Family meetings and relationship status do not need to be rushed but enjoyed as our time progresses together.
What you see is what you get with me: it is about being genuine, caring, humorous. I am the one who says the non-pc comment just to make us laugh; I enjoy sarcasm and banter. Life is not that serious. I am content when in the kitchen; let's have your friends join my friends for a night of food, wine, dessert; no need to be exclusive all of the time. I enjoy planning dates and spending three hours at the same restaurant because the conversation and food are that good, and the woman that beautiful.
Key element: I will not be your happiness and you will not be mine. You define your own happiness. I will add to it and you will add to mine but we are not responsible for the happiness of one another. I love my life and I desire to date someone, either casually or seriously, who loves theirs. Laughter, endless laughter.
Must love dogs is overrated though I do love mine. Really, must love sex.
Give me a smile, your hand, and exchanged laughter and, in turn, I will provide an atmosphere of ease, kindness, and passion.