I've been an overachiever my entire life but on the flip side, I don't take myself very seriously. I can always find something to laugh at, even if it's myself. Although I'd feel better if it were you ;)
My match is - someone who is strong and confident in his Christian walk, not just taking up space in the pew. He is emotionally mature i.e. he is capable of love. He's educated, financially stable and independent. He is nurturing and steady, and assumes the role of the rock in the relationship. At the same time, he has a sense of humor and enjoys bantering with me. He does not sulk or play games. He does not cheat. He has a relaxed personality. He's not high maintenance (yes, gentlemen, some of you are precisely that!) He doesn't mind when I ask him to explain what a first down is (again). He doesn't smoke, drink, or have a baby mama.