Im just a guy looking to find someone that I can enjoy time with. Not looking to jump in to marriage or even have kids. I have 2 awesome little kids of my own. I love the time I get with them. I don't care if you have kids or not. I work a lot too, in my industry thats common. I have time after work to have a drink or eat somewhere new and cool in nyc. Then it's back home to NJ for me. I have my own place and sometimes it nice on the weekend to just watch some tv and order in. I can cook also, but I really love cooking for others. So most of the time I just eat out. Anyway lets see what this site is all about.