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28 year old man
Nashville, Tennessee, United States

Seeking:
women 21-29
Within:
30 Miles of Nashville, Tennessee, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Asian, White / Caucasian, Other
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm laid-back, adventurous, and loyal, but not possessive or addictive.
I'll get you soup when sick and drive to your car if you have a flat tire, but will not buy girls a drink because of looks or entitlement issues,..Mutual support is good, nagging a turnoff.
ENTJ,"most of the time" bored the rest, Native New Yorker, Fashion junkie, I know the value of a tailored Kiton suit, probably have more shoes than girls, and can spot a faux LV bag, just get a functional gap tote, nothing wrong with frugal, but imitations not welcomed
I believe in chivalry, but don't like handouts.
Although some reckless fun is welcome, I'm not an frat boy and want more substance than a hookup I can get at a bar.
A former Derivatives Trader, and consultant and global investor, I lived, worked, and traveled to over 25 places with ambivalence, allowing me the great experiences of different cultures, deeper appreciation and understanding of people, religion, beyond superficial labels, but moved down here for a more simplistic lifestyle, and trying to establish relationships, beyond just business comrades and drinking buddies. I'd like to meet a workout, dancing partner to go shopping with, and stay home cuddling or cooking together, but spontaneous enough to pack their bags for a weekend trip to Europe for new adventures. Most importantly, I would like to meet someone that has core values and principles developed by overcoming adversity and would push each other to improve.
I'm good at:
Dancing, Standardized tests, Art-Drawing, Martial arts, Giving and getting massages, making people laugh, Contradicting the calculator-rich, socially-meek and risk-adverse Asian Stereotype, proponent of self-depreciating humor, and gritty sarcasm. Breaking the mold and staying alive.
Friends describe me as a nerd, jock, a kid at heart, with a CEO's brain, who understands life's too short to fear happiness... kindness...and truly believe that a good heart will take you a long way.
To be fair, I have a non contagious life threatening medical condition, survived two comas, due to negative drug reactions, with my faith in God and family support allowing me to live. These experiences taught me to value genuineness, compassion, empathy and understand that powerful relationships and are more important than money and ego. I give thanks to genuine medical professionals, nurses and doctors, responsible for my care and especially my parents knowing the mutual love shown even at times I couldn't say their names.
PS: According to cultural barriers, I'm disadvantaged being a minority, living in the South, but think playing to superficial stereotypes is a sign of fear that limits personal growth, and think true beauty transcends ethnic lines. As physical attraction counts but subsides with a lack of character, I want someone that can accept me for my strengths, weaknesses, and allow me to judge them on character, beyond the outside. I think people are sometimes too guarded and sometimes being vulnerable is seen as a sign of weakness, but I feel vulnerabilities, not neediness, develops intimacy and brings people closer, New to the area, I'm still looking for a core group of people to share values and laughs, Seriously we're on this site for similar reasons,let's go grab drinks, make friends and share a lighter side. I'm easy to get along with and promise we'll have fun as friends or something more. Feel free to ask any questions.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Football, Dancing, Martial arts, Running, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Dogs are a man's best friend and riding on elephants are fun! Cat's are fine, but I'm allergic.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
Vanderbilt University, Nashville, TN
For fun:

Sports, Drawing, Boxing, Piano, learning new recepies, traveling. Jogging. Road trips. The outdoors. Shopping, Scoring 765pts in WwF! I was a breakdancer and auditioned on one of those TV dance competition shows, and all the typical stuff.

Favorite hot spots:

Outside: Islands in Asia, Florida Keys,. Castles in Europe. and places with white sand, blue water and good wine. TN: I like Midtown, Percy Priest Lake, downtown, but sometimes it's too touristy. Any good suggestions would be welcomed.

Favorite things:

Yankees, Giants, Knicks, VU games concerts, Gatorade, Diet Coke, Rachmaninoff. U2, Hip Hop(primarily Pre-mid2000s). Hendrix. Shoes, Nice People, Montecristo #2.. NFL TV, hot showers, Volunteering with kids, good vino,my nephews. Cuddling.

Last read:

Economist, GQ, Newsweek, Non-fiction mostly. although a dabble in NYTimes bestseller list is welcomed. Exit signs, Travel Magazines.Bills

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

Ex-Hedge Fund trader, Financier, ex-professional kickboxer and instructor, currently managing independent businesses and investments. Facing life changes and discrimination, influenced me to change careers and focus on Economic Development.

Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, White / Caucasian, Other
No preference

My relatives are mostly from Asia or Europe. Dad-Thai. Mom orphaned from Caucasian man and Asian woman. So I have the height of a white soldier and the standardized test scores of my red faced assassins.

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
No preference

I value my beliefs and faith which allowed me to live today, but am open to all people and their understanding, as long as there's mutual respect. Really we're all people in the same world life's too short for fear, hate, or intolerance.

Languages:
English, French, Other
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Went to Vanderbilt, without the attitude, Dropped out of Cornell architecture Phd. Switched track to Economic Development and a JD/MBA at Stanford temporarily halted by health.I believe that you're defined by your character not just a piece of paper.

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