My close friends say I have a uniquely strong personality but also that I'm an able listener. I say I'm an energetic and dynamic guy looking for good times and who always invites new experiences. I have high aspirations and I would like to share my ambitions with someone special who is motivated, yet not overly serious. I'm looking for an attractive, young woman with aspirations of becoming something big. Athleticism is highly desirable as are a high sense of personal health and well-being. Above all, I'm looking for an outgoing yet easy-going, fun-loving, confidant, and someone that'll be there when life doesn't go as planned. Expressiveness, open-mindedness, and even a little bit of diplomatic aggressiveness goes a long way with me. If you're looking for a guy to agree with your every word, that's not me. I'll be polite, but I'm going to add insight when I have something to offer. I'm drawn to "challenges"--girls who have a wild side that need room/time to open up to show that side of their personality.
Truth be told, I'm still finding a balance between revealing too much about who I am and putting too little out there. The "online dating" thing is a complicated equation involving timing, work load, eagerness to break out of one's shell, willingness to look past one awkward comment made on instant messaging, and more. It's tough work! I maintain, though, that being able to get in a few tough questions before meeting someone is so much better than blindly meeting a friend of a co-worker without getting that chance. You can always find creeps online, though it's unlikely to bite you if you listen carefully to what the other is saying and willing to communicate (and so long as they have recent pictures posted!).