ok i felt it was time to re-write this since some things have changed, and as I read my old profile there were some parts where I thought I sounded like an a-hole. Hopefully this one turns out better haha.
I'm a 34 year old single father. My son is my world, I would do anything for him. He's about 5 and a half, and he's in kindergarten. He hasn't seen his Dad with a girlfriend other than his Mom, so I have to be selective as to who I let be around my son.
I work a demanding job at a mortgage company, and i've been there for about 3.5 years, pretty much since I moved here to AZ from Washington State. It's been great, and it's given me opportunities that I never had before. The reason I have mostly been single for the past 3 years is because I work a ton, and by the time I get home it's about 8pm, and then on the weekends I used to have my son most of the time. Well, things have changed and opened up a little, and now I'm really putting in the time and effort to find someone special. I am looking for more than just a good time. I want someone that I can see a future with, someone that can meet my son someday. If I like you, you will know it.....i'm not afraid to put myself out there and to be vulnerable with the right person. At the end of the day I know I'm a good guy with lots of things going for me, so rejection isn't as scary for me as maybe it once was.
I'm a huge sports fan.....Seahawks, Mariners, Gonzaga, Lakers.......those are my teams......i like to play guitar, i like to play poker with the boys, I like to go out with friends....i like to go to the gym and eat healthy, although on the weekends I relax on the meal plan a little....you gotta live, right?........I love going to movies and going out to nice dinners. Nothing better than Spring Training games in AZ. Recently I went to my first hockey game, and thought that was pretty cool.....i could see myself becoming a Coyotes fan......hockey games are great for dates....the action on the ice is fast moving, and then you get breaks in between the periods where you can talk to the other person
When I say i've been single for 3 years, that doesn't mean I haven't had my share of fun in that time......I just haven't had that one person that I wanted to be exclusive with. I've had multiple little flings, but something usually derails them.
I have a two kid maximum....i know this sounds shallow, but I can't deal with a woman that has more than 2 kids. Just a personal preference.
I'm looking for a woman to be my partner, my teammate, my equal. Someone that makes me want to be better than I am now. You have to have a good personality and be able to laugh not only at my dumb jokes, but also at yourself once in a while! I want someone who thinks about me as much as I think about them, who wants to see me as much as I want to see them. If I said physical attraction wasn't important, I would be lying, and I suck at lying. So obviously there has to be attraction there. I'm a sucker for brunettes and girls named Jenn. If you are neither of those, it's ok, it's not a dealbreaker haha. I like a woman that takes care of herself physically. You have to have a good heart, I like genuinely nice women, not the bitchy type. I also like it if you listen to country music.....not sure why....i just feel that if you listen to country music, you probably have a good heart and are a good person. I know that sounds stupid, but it's just a theory I have.
Well that's it for now, I'm an open book so if I left anything out or if you want to ask me something, feel free to message. If I like you, i'll respond.....if I don't respond, that is me telling you that I'm not interested in a totally non-confrontational type of way, but I think it works well in the online dating world. I don't want to get into a debate about why I should like you or not, so it's easier for me to just not respond if I'm not feeling it.