I'm a straight forward , no lies, open, honest person looking for same. I work long hours but still find time for fun. Someday I'll fulfill my dream of living in sunny lower latitudes where shorts and flip flops are the wardrobe staples. I enjoy spending summer weekends on my sailboat at the jersey shore, country music, cold drinks and good food. If your a beach bum at heart but wrestle with the old saying: "work to live don't live to work" , then we would probably get along well.