Looking for someone that just wants to hang out and see where it goes with no pressure. Dinners, boating, jet skiing, ski-diving and travel, I love it all. I don't have an extreme amount of time (but would make it for the right person). Looking for someone who is self-sufficient and doesn't need to be taken care or have an obsessive need to take care of me, as I am definitely self-sufficient. Although I believe chivalry really is not dead...so if you remember to get the door thats a plus and yes I will reach over and unlock the drive side of the door too. Looking for an individual that wants a relationship not needs one. Someone with a great sense of humor and the ability to laugh at himself and sometimes, of course, at me too, as I tend to do silly things. My pictures are very recent. I have traveled extensively from South and Central America to all over Europe and the Middle East and a few places in Africa. Not in traditional "American fashion" at some resort, but by finding the completely local places, events, and people to visit and hanging out with. Looking to find someone with similar travel experience or a desire to travel. Warning: If you can't "go with the flow" sometimes I probably will be way "too much" for you, as I am very free spirited and sometimes like to "just" see where the day takes me. I am as good of a follower as I am a leader and enjoy it more when it goes both ways. You must be able to hold your own. I believe if someone ask a question then they are ready for the answer, despite the outcome. Political answers don't fair well with me, a straight forward "No" or "yes" keeps things simple. I mean "pick a horse and ride it" right? I love my children and family is super important to me...ok so here comes the Jewish mom part....I was bless with really remarkable children who are 12 and 18 and they are a big part of my life. One is at UC Berkeley (for you New Yorkers...really it's the Ivy League of the west and much better :) ) and my youngest daughter lives with me.