I'm THAT girl. I'm the one that is NOT batshiz crazy. I'm that pretty cool chick. Intelligent, down to earth, emotionally connected, intuitive and drama free. I don't argue, get passive aggressive, or play the fight over something stupid, break up and have great make up sex game. I'm the total package, minus the Barbie body and the finalized divorce. After two years, you'd think I'd have that done by now....but at least I have an interesting story!
Anyway....I should mention that I'm a self employed Real Estate Agent. It's my more than full time gig, in addition to being a full time Mom. It is how I feed my family. No alimony, child support, food stamps, or trust fund here. So....feel free to message me if you are interested in buying or selling or are facing foreclosure. Sorry, shameless plug, but this is, after all, an advertisement anyway, right??
I am usually more of a listener than a talker but I'm not exactly an introvert. I'm extremely laid back and from the East coast....thus, my skin is pretty thick which means it takes a lot to ruffle my feathers. I'm all for wit, sarcasm and dry humor. I’m compassionate and empathetic....a lover AND a fighter if it is something that I am passionate about!
I should get back to the Barbie body comment before we get too far. I am a big girl. A half fat chick! "Pear" or "Diamond" shaped. That means a big booty and crazy amazon thighs. I promise, when clothes are off...I am probably bigger than you think. I'm not a lazy unhealthy slob, either....I just have yet to reach my goal. 110lbs down. I started a 90 day fitness challenge and fully intend to rock it....stay tuned....
I am very focused on getting healthy and having a healthy household. If you like McD's...you may find my passion obnoxious. I am also working out at least 3 to 4 days per wk and eating gluten free and organic as much as I can.
I share custody of 2 amazing little girls and the cutest little boy. Yep....3 little ones. I love being a Mom!
After two and a half years, I have come to realize that clearly online dating is just not something I am good at. Maybe it is because I read between the lines and have such an amazing bullshiz detector? Or maybe my standards are simply too high. I don't know....but I'm calling UNCLE. I'm tired of the juggling, the endless texting to nowhere, the pre-screening, and the 'first meet'. If you enjoy the aforementioned, you are not ready for me. I refuse to meet just to meet or date just to date.
I’m really good at: Listening AND hearing what you are saying. Feeling....I feel deeply and often. I wear my heart on my sleeve and hurt easily. Fortunately, I have learned how to mend quickly. Thinking....outside of the box. I don't wait to be taught. I have learned how to get over it and let it go. I don’t hold grudges and I forgive too easily.
I'm not much of a 'rules' girl, I've kind of tried to find a way around them just about all of my life. I am spontaneous to a fault...I am not a planner. I moved to AZ from CT in 1999 with 2 suitcases, my dog and 1500 bucks. i love spur of the moment drives or trips or adventures out and love surprises. I am a night owl but I love sleep. I am easily distracted, disorganized, and late for just about everything but somehow I still manage not to piss everyone off.
I'm a huge fan of over communication and telling it like it is. I am a total smart ass and if you get me going, I could make a sailor blush when I'm not consciously watching my mouth...so if the eff word offends you...we probably wont work. if you don't want to know what I really think, don't ask!
My place is definitely NOT in the kitchen, but I try! I do love food and finding where the best restaurants are hidden. I'm not a natural housewife either....I am a firm believer in outsourcing whenever possible!
I believe in love and passion and one without the other, although maybe fun, is not worth pursuing in depth. Casual sex is just not my thing!