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31 year old woman
Pasadena, Maryland, United States

Seeking:
men 30-41
Within:
25 Miles of Pasadena, Maryland, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Curvy
Height:
5'3" (160cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Most of my friends consider me to be a very rare individual. I love Doctor Who and all things sci fi, anime, cooking/baking, all things vintage, sewing/knitting/almost anything crafty, trying new foods and seeing new places, and being more than what is expected.

I like to do research ALOT before starting a new activity. Being well informed is important to me. I also like to make sure I have the very best before starting, like procuring the best chocolate when baking a cake.

Top quirks about me:

I was born Jewish. Yup third generation NYC Jewish. Not many people know that there is a large Black Jewish community in Canarsie Brooklyn NYC
I'm pretty reserved and ladylike until I'm comfortable. After that, I'm reserved and ladylike in public only lol.
I can retain nearly everything I learn- not a perfect photographic memory but my recall is pretty accurate.
One of my greatest (read: silliest) wishes is to have personal background music. Like I'm listening to "Big Bad Handsome Man" by Imelda May or "Try a Little Tenderness" by Otis Redding when trying to write about the guy I desire.
I hate the taste of beans!!!
I'm highly allergic to cats and cigarette smoke and they (cats and smokers) seem to love tormenting me by following me.
I can't drive yet- for the past few years, I have used my money to help care for a sick parent. Now that things have stabilized, I can move forward.

What I like/want in a guy:

confidence- not to the point of being an A**h*** but really believes in themselves and is somewhat aggressive.
humor, the kind where I really should be mad at you, but can't help laughing
height (I'm about 5'3" so taller than that is nice lol)
big hands (I'm a fluffy full figured girl; what would I do with a guy with small hands?)
sense of style- your wardrobe has more than baggy pants, a baseball cap and hoodies galore.
Look up Def Poetry's "Penny for Your Thoughts" by Gemineye or "This Type Love" by Shihan- someone whose mind could think of me in that way.

I would like to find someone who is creative and inventive. A man who doesn't want to skip important "relationship steps" would be ideal also. Mutual deep affections (like love *GASP*) should be there before the physical aspects (and now I've lost anyone who continued to read- I don't know whether to laugh or sigh...). The world has become so quick quick quick that the niceties and nuances of learning about someone and letting it develop have disappeared. Also wanting to have kids AFTER marriage is high on my "perfect guy" criteria- if you're not sure or don't want any/any more, you're not the guy for me. I would like to find someone who actually likes fabulously curvy black women. I think it's hilarious that many of the matches I've been sent so far have no interest in a woman of my race or physical type but have the same interests as I do.

**END NOTE**
From my pics, you have already discerned that my figure is quite.... unique. I will NOT respond to messages referencing/asking about/lusting after my assets. I am a person and have feelings. I'm here to find someone I could grow to love, not be the next notch on someone's bed post and forgotten. Please do not contact me if all you have to say are vulgar remarks about you/my body/sex. And if your profile shows up on my "who's viewed me" multiple times without some form of email introducing yourself, please expect to be blocked from creeping my photos.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

sorry but absolutely no cats/birds near me!!! Darn you allergies!!!!!

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
University of Maryland, College Park, College Park, MD
For fun:

reading and writing. movies and theater (but no scary movies!), sewing, cooking, baking, learning new things. would love to learn ballroom dance. the arts: museums, galleries, etc. watch/go to sports games although you'll be explaining quite a bit

Favorite hot spots:

Smithsonian museums, D.C. nightlife, festivals... haven't travelled too much or go out too much (not for lack of trying)

Favorite things:

korean food, any music where they're not screaming incoherently, trying new foods and places, love vintage (TCM, clothes, music, period based tv shows/movies, etc.), Project Runway, So You Think You Can Dance, Def Poetry

Last read:

Romance novels (usually by black authors), poetry, the lost symbol, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Anita Blake novels, Harry Potter (hey those books are great!),

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'3" (160cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Curvy
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
No preference
Income:
Less Than $25,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

i have some italian/sicilan in my blood along with irish.

Faith:
Christian / Other
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English, Other
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Came home to take care of a sick parent.

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