I am tired of the bar scene and talking to drunk people so hopefully this will provide something new. I am a high energy guy that likes to stay active and am looking for someone who is similar. My outlook on life is that one should enjoy it; it is short and what is even shorter is youth. I try to live in the moment as much as I can, but not to the point of being irresponsible. I am spontaneous and I love to laugh until I'm teary eyed. I am level headed and calm, when appropiate, and can handle just about anything without freaking out. I don't have ideals that my match should live up to, she should just be herself. If it works out so be it, if not thats fine. I also think that people should support each other as much as they can to enhance each others lives, its all too common that one or the other is a "dominatrix" or is super needy. My match should not be serious all the time, willing to laugh at me ( I do some really ridiculous stuff sometimes), but still have a forward direction, i.e. not satisfied with the status quo. One of my major pushes in life is to always keep improving in some way. I hope to find someone who shares this view.