He must be goal oriented hard worker but knows how to let go of work and enjoy the beauty of life. He also must be selfless and no how to captivate me mentally and emotionally. I'm looking for someone who wants to be my best friend but also knows how to allow us to have time away. Loyalty is #1 in my book, if there's no trust there's no us. thats with friendships as well as relationships.Must be spontaneous, caring, as well as attentive and have a love for music.