I am looking for my best friend and lover in one. I enjoy staying home and watching movies on the couch or going on date nights with someone who is a honest, selfless, mature and supportive gentleman. Treat me like a lady and I'll treat you like a man.The next man in my life must be ready and willing to have one or more kids as I am at that point in my life of wanting more kids. There are few things sexier than watching a man with children and watching a genuine bond between himself and my 12 year old son. He must definitely be ready to pop the question. Yes, I want to be pampered and loved on and experience new things. And I want to build a family and have not just a house but a home. My man must be able to provide these things. Let's spoil each other. A happy wife makes a happy life. :-) I chose to join Match at the encouragement of a friend, but also, because I must admit, I rather not be on the scene anymore to meet people. I enjoy being home and so I'm hoping to kill two birds with one stone. I want the security and protection of an amazing guy and I'll pamper him by serving dinner with high heels on. More or less. :-) I do like the finer things in life but they do not go unappreciated and I am grateful for all that I have and even the things I don't - yet.