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38 year old woman
Jersey City, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
men 35-50
Within:
Miles of New Jersey, New Brunswick, Canada
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3)
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Full-figured
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am a woman who still believes that good men do exist!

I will not go into what he should have because everyone is different. However, I know what works for me and I will recognize it when I see it..

Updated 5/15/2013

I didn't really feel the need to write a long bio in this section, but since I haven't been getting any feedback, maybe I'll add a little more about myself.

I am a young, ambitious, hardworking woman who has a level of maturity and perspective that is very different from my peers. I am very open-minded and use my own brain to think!! I am not confrontational, however, I'm not a conformist. I like to look at the big picture and consider the not so obvious before offering an opinion. I respect people for who they are and not for what I want them to be. I know it is possible to be attracted to someone, and not their personality. The old clich� that "women don't want to hear the truth", doesn't apply here.

I love men! I do not like emasculated males, machismo or insecure men. A woman cannot make a man or prevent him from being one. I believe you don't have to go into what qualities a man should have. If he is a man, he would already possess them.

As for my theory on life................

I think life is just a big ball of opportunities and consequences, and we are in control of how much of those situations affect us. The goal is too be able to look yourself in the mirror and ultimately be proud of the person you are. Be the best you that you can be.

What I like....

I enjoy shopping, traveling and snuggling. I have a hectic schedule so when I get opportunities to do nothing, sometimes I choose to do just that. I also like Broadway shows, concerts, drummer circles, poetry slams etc etc.... Anything that encourages art and culture. I love sports! Football season I shut down my schedule! I'm a Pittsburgh steelers fan and proud! I love the art of wholesome competition.

The guy for me, is fun! He is loving, generous and kind. He is intelligent, observant, strong and passionate. He is sincere, respectful, proud, hardworking and somebody I can look up to and admire. He is honest and sensitive and is willing to treat me like a woman. He is a MAN and hopefully will become My MAN! :)

Interests:
Business networking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Dancing, Inline skating, Running, Swimming, Yoga, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

That depends on the season! In the summer, I enjoy going to the beach, in the fall, sundays are strictly for football! The winter is for movies and staying home. In the spring, I like laying a blanket in the park or going into the city for shows.

Favorite hot spots:

I enjoy live music, wherever it is!

Favorite things:

whew! my favorite things! Bowling, DIY arts and crafts, eating out, movies, dancing, jewelry, karaoke, traveling etc......etc.......

Last read:

time magazine

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Full-figured
No preference
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
Daily
Drink:
Social Drinker
Moderately
Occupation:
Labor / Construction
Other profession

It doesn't matter what his occupation is as long as he is gainfully employed.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3)
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Associates degree
No preference

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