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37 year old woman
Seattle, Washington, United States

Seeking:
men 28-50
Within:
25 Miles of Seattle, Washington, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I dislike every single point of this sad but true below article.

MY THOUGHTS ARE IN CAPS.
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Ugly Truths About Modern Dating:

1. The person who cares less has all the power. Nobody wants to be the one who’s more interested. AND THAT'S WHY EVERYONE IS SINGLE AND HAPPY ON AND OFF MATCH.COM, NO?

2. Because we want to show how cavalier and blasé we can be to the other person, little psychological games like ‘Intentionally Take Hours Or Days To Text Back’ will happen. SEE #1

3. A person being carefree because they have zero interest in you looks exactly like a person being carefree because they think you’re amazing & are making a conscious effort to play it cool. Good luck deciphering between the two. SEE #1

4. Making phone calls is a dying art. Chances are, most of your relationship’s communication will happen via text, which is the most detached, impersonal form of interaction. IF I'M NOT ASKED OUT AFTER 8 TEXT EXCHANGES, OR AT THE END OF THE FIRST PHONE CONVERSATION, I AM LIKELY FORGET YOU WITHIN 24-48 HRS.

5. Set plans are dead. People have options and up-to-the-minute updates on their friends (or other potential romantic interests) whereabouts thanks to texts & social media. If you aren’t the top priority, your invitation to spend time will be given a “Maybe” or “I’ll let you know” and the deciding factor(s) will be if that person has offers more fun/interesting than you on the table. (WELL, YOU GOT THE DRILL... ;)

6. Someone who hurt you isn’t automatically going to have bad karma. At least not in the immediate future. I know it only seems fair, but sometimes people betray and move on happily while the person they left is in shambles. SEE #1

7. The only difference between your actions being romantic and creepy is how attractive the other person finds you. HOW TRUE, AND HOW HYPOCRITICAL!

8. “Let’s chill” & “Wanna hang out?” are vague phrases that likely mean “let’s hookup” — and while you probably hate receiving them, they’re the common way to invite someone to spend time these days, and appear to be here to stay. AND TO EACH, I ALWAYS SAID: WHAT EXACTLY DOES THAT MEAN?

9. Some people just want to hookup and if you’re seeking more than sex, they won’t tell you that they’re the wrong person for you. While human decency is ideal, honesty isn’t mandatory. THERE'S THE TEST OF TIME AND MANY OTHER TESTS TO RULE THE RIFF-RAFF OUT

11. So many people are scared of commitment and being official that they’ll remain in a label-free relationship, which blurs lines and only works until it doesn’t. I’ve said it many times before, I’ll say it again – “we’re just talking” is opening the door for cheating that technically wasn’t cheating because, hey, you weren’t together together. THE PERPETUAL "SINGLE" MEN ARE UNDESIRABLE.

12. Social media creates new temptations and opportunities to cheat. The private messaging and options for subtle flirtation (e.g. liking of pictures) aren’t an excuse or validation for cheating, but they certainly increase the chances of it happening. THERE ARE LOTS OF CHEATERS AND LOSERS! BEWARE!

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17. There are plenty of people with no respect for your relationship and if they want the person you’re with, they’ll have no qualms with trying to overstep boundaries to get to ‘em. Girl code/guy code are wishful thinking and human code isn’t embedded in everyone. THE PRODUCT OF OVER POPULATION, OVERWORKED PARENTS, CHILDREN WHO WEREN'T RAISED PROPERLY who GREW UP TO BE CALLOUS, DISRESPECTFUL, AMORAL AND MISERABLE ADULTS

18. If you get dumped, it’s probably going to be pretty brutal. People can cut ties over the phone and avoid seeing the tears stream down your face or end things via text and avoid hearing the pain in your cracking voice and sniffling nose. SEE 17

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Playing cards, Political interests
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I do not have any pet but a fish.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
University of Washington, Seattle, WA
For fun:

Fine dining- in upscale restaurants, hole in the wall - secret get-aways
Weekend escapes,
Ski
Swim
Spend time with children
Cook
Visit friends
Read about politics, law, finance, social science and biographies.

Favorite hot spots:

Palisade's, Ponti's, Waldrus & Carpenter, Bookbindery, RN74, Metropolitan Grill, Nordstrom Grill...etc.

Favorite things:

Sunny days by the water.
Home-cooked meals.
Dim Sum and Brunch Buffet on weekends.
Haagan Dazs' rum raisin ice cream
Ben Jerry's Chunky Monkey

Last read:

Hemingway's For Whom The Bell Tolls.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Financial / Accounting / Real Estate
No preference

I worked 10 years as a wealth manager at a Private Equity company in downtown Seattle, whose logo was "We make money the old-fashioned way. We earn it." Currently on a sabbatical to examine the meaning of life. ;)

Income:
I'll tell you later
$75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
Asian, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian

Pho - lover

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, Other
English, Other
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I'm a graduate of the Univ. of WA Business school (Seattle, WA)

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