I am confidant, I walk like a boss which makes men think I am unapproachable but nothing could be further from the truth. I am strong and intelligent. I am a survivor and the ultimate care giver. I am dependable to a fault, and have yet to meet someone who can keep their word or be honest if they can't. You need to be honest about who you are and what you want otherwise what is the point? There is nothing wrong with knowing your own worth.
I don't want long walks on the beach or romantic dinners, but someone who can laugh and have fun in the grocery store. Kiss my forehead, hold my hand when we are driving, smack my butt when I go up the stairs in front of you.
I love fishing, but I'm not a nature girl. I'm a mom first and that makes me a realist. I have a daughter who is 22, a 19 year old and a 7 year old. My boys are the most important men in my life.
I absolutely know what I do not want. I can usually smell a player a mile away. I love real men, I hate liars! I don't lie because I don't have to. Don't make excuses, don't be afraid to speak your mind (because I'm not) and life is unpredictable...I accept that good and bad things happen, people fall down, and sometimes everyone needs help. Macho gets you nowhere but I love a man who takes charge..make sense?
I have been a serial monogamist all of my life. I dedicate myself to people I love and loyalty is something I cannot live without.
People gain weight and lose it. I had 3 kids so I know. If you want someone who stays skinny all the time, that isn't me. I question things, I argue, I concede, I have a college degree and I use the "F" word all the time.
I have always supported myself and yes I would love to be taken care of finally (not necessarily financially.) If you have my back I will ALWAYS have yours.
I am an amazing woman. I don't want to fix you, to change you, to settle for you. It's about self worth (not ego,) I have no desire to compete with anyone for attention. I have no problem walking away from anyone who chooses to be less than sincere.
PATIENCE! I need that. I am soooo stubborn, but trying to be better ;)