If you drop something my lightning quick reflexes will either catch it or smack it across the room. I will not mind if you drop something. If you go on vacation and let me borrow your car I will fix the dent in the rear quarter panel and replace your windshield wipers without even telling you. If you don't appreciate it I will break up with you. After dinner I will fearlessly reach into your kitchen sink drain with my bare hands to clean it. I am an awesome dad, and I'd like to be one again. I'd like to share my life with my soul mate. They exist.
the chain of command